{"id":1700,"date":"2011-05-16T10:26:10","date_gmt":"2011-05-16T14:26:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/inspirationreport\/?p=1700"},"modified":"2011-05-16T10:26:10","modified_gmt":"2011-05-16T14:26:10","slug":"five-things-you-love-about-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/inspirationreport\/2011\/05\/five-things-you-love-about-you.html","title":{"rendered":"Five Things You Love about You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m borrowing this idea from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.downtowndharma.com\/index.php\/2011\/03\/21\/five-things-i-love-about-me\/\" target=\"_blank\">Downtown Dharma<\/a>, because it&#8217;s an excellent exercise in self-love. <\/p>\n<p>Could you list five things you love about yourself?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll go first.<\/p>\n<p>1. I&#8217;m funny<\/p>\n<p>2. I&#8217;m a writer<\/p>\n<p>3. I have crazy, fun curly hair<\/p>\n<p>4. I can get along with anybody<\/p>\n<p>5. I love the one, lone freckle I have next to the right eye<\/p>\n<p>What I found surprising is the lull that I experienced between points #3 and #4. Seriously, it took all weekend to write this blog. I&#8217;d like to think I have pretty decent self-esteem, but even I fumbled at complimenting myself. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/inspirationreport\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/89\/2011\/05\/shy-girl-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"The Inspiration Report\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1701\" \/><\/a>You&#8217;d think it would be easy to be nice to yourself, but self-criticism and judgment just comes more naturally to some. It takes nothing to look at the negative, but the positive is always ducking behind a tree.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that old Saturday Night Live sketch with Al Franken when he&#8217;d look in the mirror and go: &#8220;I&#8217;m good enough. I&#8217;m smart enough and doggone it, people like me&#8221;? It was funny and cheesy&#8230; but he was kinda on to something.<\/p>\n<p>When&#8217;s the last time you said something nice about yourself out loud? If it&#8217;s been a while (or maybe never), you&#8217;re long over due. <\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t wait for people to notice the good things about you. You have to recognize and celebrate them for yourself. I mean, after all, if you don&#8217;t like you, who else will?<\/p>\n<p>One of my mother&#8217;s many words of advice is: &#8220;Speak positive things about yourself everyday.&#8221; So go for it. Don&#8217;t be shy; toot your own horn. List five things you love about yourself and post it below. <\/p>\n<p><em>For More:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Inspiration\/Galleries\/31-Days-of-Self-Love.aspx\">31 Days of Self-Love<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Inspiration\/2009\/06\/Self-Love-Quotes.aspx\">Inspiration for Loving Yourself More<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Inspiration\/2010\/08\/Tips-for-Being-Your-True-Self.aspx\">Tips for Being Your True Self<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m borrowing this idea from Downtown Dharma, because it&#8217;s an excellent exercise in self-love. Could you list five things you love about yourself? I&#8217;ll go first. 1. I&#8217;m funny 2. I&#8217;m a writer 3. I have crazy, fun curly hair 4. I can get along with anybody 5. 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