{"id":755,"date":"2007-01-03T13:43:00","date_gmt":"2007-01-03T13:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2007\/01\/im-sorry-is-big-business.html"},"modified":"2007-01-03T13:43:00","modified_gmt":"2007-01-03T13:43:00","slug":"im-sorry-is-big-business","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/2007\/01\/im-sorry-is-big-business.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I&#8217;m Sorry&#8221; is Big Business"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One more follow-up to CNN&#8217;s &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2006\/12\/is-meaningless-controversy-even.html\" target=\"_New\">Most Controversial Celebrities of 2006<\/a>&#8220;: <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2006\/10\/mel-gibson-its-all-about-you.html\" target=\"_New\">Mel Gibson<\/a>, Tom Cruise, Lindsay Lohan, and Britney Spears not only provided non-stop fun and follies on which a starving (or bored) cultural audience feasted, but something else far more newsworthy&#8211;and perhaps dangerous&#8211;was going on as well.<\/p>\n<p>It has probably been true every year and I just haven&#8217;t noticed it, but 2006 certainly seemed to be the year where saying &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; became big business for stars&#8211;in some ways, as big as what they do on set. More and more, the business that a movie, TV show, or CD title does has more to do with the star&#8217;s image and brand than the actual show or song itself. And if that&#8217;s true, then each star&#8217;s ability to express regret, or contrition, or apology&#8211;or at least the appearance of it&#8211;is not only important as a moral value but it&#8217;s essential to their livelihood and those of their supporting casts and partners, which is why it&#8217;s become big business and why I&#8217;m not sure how to trust any apology that ever comes down the spin cycle.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since Hugh Grant went on Jay Leno to be teed up for a his famous apology by Jay&#8217;s wonderful &#8220;What the hell where you thinking?&#8221; question, stars have realized that issuing an apology requires the advance work worthy of a movie premiere or music video rollout, yielding humungous results if executed well.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just their good name that&#8217;s on the line&#8211;it&#8217;s their marketability and thus their next paycheck.<\/p>\n<p>So now, experts are called in and agents haggle over details of not only the words but the setting and genre of the next well-produced version of &#8220;to all my fans, and whomever I may have offended, and all those dear people I&#8217;ve ever met anywhere, and to anyone with a pulse who may or may not be tempted to not buy the next thing I act or sing in, I apologize with every fiber of my being for any trouble or damage or lifelong scarring I might have caused in you through my alleged whatever-it-is that got caught on video because if it didn&#8217;t I wouldn&#8217;t be acknowledging it or apologizing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The problem, of course, is that when apologies became part of show business&#8211;rather than the stuff that happens off-screen in &#8220;real life&#8221;&#8211;we can never know whether one is authentic or produced. And that, my friends, is not good for a nation of spiritual people who long for authenticity. Today, the acting of actors (and others) extends offscreen, leaving a trail of (possibly) short-term financial success but long-term damage to our nation&#8217;s culture.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One more follow-up to CNN&#8217;s &#8220;Most Controversial Celebrities of 2006&#8220;: Mel Gibson, Tom Cruise, Lindsay Lohan, and Britney Spears not only provided non-stop fun and follies on which a starving (or bored) cultural audience feasted, but something else far more newsworthy&#8211;and perhaps dangerous&#8211;was going on as well. 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