{"id":49618,"date":"2026-03-11T09:43:13","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T13:43:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/?p=49618"},"modified":"2026-03-11T09:43:13","modified_gmt":"2026-03-11T13:43:13","slug":"james-van-der-beeks-9-year-old-daughter-shares-touching-tribute-i-talk-to-my-dad-every-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/2026\/03\/james-van-der-beeks-9-year-old-daughter-shares-touching-tribute-i-talk-to-my-dad-every-day.html","title":{"rendered":"James Van Der Beek&#8217;s 9-Year-Old Daughter Shares Touching Tribute: &#8216;I Talk to My Dad Every Day.&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_49621\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-49621\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/87\/2026\/03\/Emilia-VanDerBeek_credit-Left-vanderkimberly-Instagram-Right-vanderjames-Instagram.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-49621\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/87\/2026\/03\/Emilia-VanDerBeek_credit-Left-vanderkimberly-Instagram-Right-vanderjames-Instagram.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-49621\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Left: @vanderkimberly \/ Instagram | Right: @vanderjames \/ Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>A moving tribute from the young daughter of late actor James Van Der Beek is touching hearts online after she shared how she continues to honor her father&#8217;s memory and hold onto hope in the wake of his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/foreverinourhearts\/2026\/02\/james-van-der-beek-dawsons-creek-star-and-father-of-6-dies-at-48-after-battle-with-cancer.html\">passing<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In a video shared on Instagram by her mother, Kimberly Van Der Beek, 9-year-old Emilia spoke candidly about grief and how she copes with the loss of her dad, who died on Feb. 11 at age 48 after a nearly three-year battle with stage 3 colorectal cancer.<\/p>\n<p>Introducing herself at the start of the video, Emilia explained she wanted to share advice with others who are grieving the loss of someone they love.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As you all probably know, my dad has passed away, but I&#8217;m just going to tell you little tips or anything that helps you getting through anybody you love passing,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Her first piece of advice was simple but heartfelt: allow yourself to feel your emotions and talk to the person you&#8217;ve lost.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you miss them, you can cry. You can talk to them. I talk to my dad every day,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I start with a sentence, and I say, &#8216;Hi, Dad. I miss you, and I love you so much, and I&#8217;ll never stop loving you.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Emilia shared that she often tells her dad about her day and how she is feeling. Though she can&#8217;t hear him respond, she believes he can still hear her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know he can hear me, but I can&#8217;t hear him,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>The young girl also expressed her faith-filled belief that her father is now in Heaven and free from suffering.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He&#8217;s in a good place,&#8221; Emilia said. &#8220;He&#8217;s not in pain anymore, he&#8217;s in Heaven.&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DVoal70ESnV\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DVoal70ESnV\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Kimberly Van Der Beek (@vanderkimberly)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Throughout the video, Emilia encouraged others grieving a loss to allow themselves to experience a range of emotions \u2014 happiness that their loved one is at peace, sadness because they are missed, and even anger. However, she reminded viewers not to blame themselves.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not a good strategy for someone&#8217;s passing,&#8221; she said gently.<\/p>\n<p>One of the most touching moments came when Emilia revealed she keeps one of her father&#8217;s hats as a special reminder of him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My dad&#8217;s hat smells like him, and I love it so much,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>The video ended with Emilia thanking those who had donated to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/support-for-james-van-der-beeks-family\">GoFundMe<\/a> set up by friends to support the family. She also reflected on the love many people had shown her father.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know that he was a good man,&#8221; she said. &#8220;A lot of people loved him, and people prayed for him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Posting the video, Kimberly shared that Emilia had asked if she could make the tribute herself, adding that the family continues to feel deeply supported by the outpouring of love.<\/p>\n<p>Shortly before his passing, James and Kimberly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/strongermarriages\/2026\/02\/james-van-der-beek-and-wife-kimberly-renewed-vows-in-bedside-ceremony-days-before-his-death.html\">renewed their wedding vows<\/a>, a final act of devotion after years of marriage. In announcing his death earlier this year, Kimberly said her husband faced his final days with &#8220;courage, faith and grace.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For Emilia and her siblings, that legacy of love and faith continues to live on \u2014 one heartfelt conversation with their father at a time. \u2764\ufe0f?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A moving tribute from the young daughter of late actor James Van Der Beek is touching hearts online after she shared how she continues to honor her father&#8217;s memory and hold onto hope in the wake of his passing. 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