{"id":3125,"date":"2009-09-29T15:29:58","date_gmt":"2009-09-29T15:29:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2009\/09\/jon-gosselin-gets-a-dear-john.html"},"modified":"2009-09-29T15:29:58","modified_gmt":"2009-09-29T15:29:58","slug":"jon-gosselin-gets-a-dear-john","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/2009\/09\/jon-gosselin-gets-a-dear-john.html","title":{"rendered":"Jon Gosselin Gets a &#8216;Dear John&#8217; Letter from TLC"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"jonandkategosselinforic.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/87\/import\/imgs\/jonandkategosselinforic.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0 0 20px 20px\" \/><\/span>Back in July, I wrote my own <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2009\/07\/a-dear-john-letter-to-jon-goss.html\" target=\"_new\">&#8220;Dear John&#8221; letter to Jon Gosselin<\/a>, explaining that it really was him when it came to my decision to side with &#8220;Team Kate.&#8221; And now TLC, the cable channel that spawned the whole &#8220;Jon &amp; Kate Plus 8&#8221; phenomenon, has written their own version of a Dear John letter, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.reuters.com\/article\/peopleNews\/idUSTRE58S4AG20090929\" target=\"_new\">the pink slip<\/a>. Ok, so the producers haven&#8217;t officially fired Gosselin, but he will appear less frequently on the show; think of him as a special guest star.<br \/>\nRedubbed &#8220;Kate Plus 8&#8221; beginning with the November 2 episode, the series&#8217; focus now will be on Kate&#8217;s life as a single mother raising multiples. &#8220;Given the recent changes in the family dynamics, it only makes sense for us to refresh and recalibrate the program to keep pace with the family,&#8221; Eileen O&#8217;Neill, president and general manager of TLC, told Reuters. Call me a cynic, but maybe it just makes sense to refresh and recalibrate the program given the recent change in the *ratings dynamics*.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nWith this week&#8217;s viewership plummeting over 80% from a high of 10.6 million, it&#8217;s obvious that audiences aren&#8217;t taking to the bifurcated couple, thanks mostly to Jon&#8217;s newly discovered player ways&#8211;hosting parties in Vegas, his traipsing about with Hailey Glassman, and his trying to <a href=\"http:\/\/perezhilton.com\/2009-09-22-kate-gosselin-says-the-dogs-can-stay\">return the family&#8217;s German Shepherds to the breeder<\/a>. So that last one is my personal pet peeve, no pun intended, but the fact is that Kate has been doing a brilliant reinvention tour, including a jaunt on &#8220;The View,&#8221; virtually erasing the housewife harpy character we loved to hate. And TLC is, naturally, going with the parent that can generate advertising revenues.<br \/>\nSo &#8220;Kate Plus 8&#8221; doesn&#8217;t have the same rhythm as &#8220;John and Kate Plus 8,&#8221; but changing the focus of the show may be a good thing in the long run. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, in 2005 there were 10 million single women raising children under 18 in the United States. All of a sudden the show has become a lot more relatable.<br \/>\nThis may be just what Jon wants, as he often quoted as saying he wished he could return to private life. But, don&#8217;t count Jon out of the spotlight just yet. Perezhilton.com is reporting that Jon has asked to <a href=\"http:\/\/perezhilton.com\/2009-09-29-jon-gosselin-wants-to-delay-the-divorce\" target=\"_new\">delay the divorce<\/a>, stating that &#8220;&#8230;it appeared that Kate had been suffering from this divorce as much as I had. That&#8217;s why I asked my attorney to put the brakes on this divorce so I could try to regain control over the future of our family.&#8221; If I was a complete cynic, I might think he meant &#8220;future of our finances,&#8221; instead.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back in July, I wrote my own &#8220;Dear John&#8221; letter to Jon Gosselin, explaining that it really was him when it came to my decision to side with &#8220;Team Kate.&#8221; And now TLC, the cable channel that spawned the whole &#8220;Jon &amp; Kate Plus 8&#8221; phenomenon, has written their own version of a Dear John&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":106,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fbia_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,4,1],"tags":[1040,1039,876,879,1042,1043,1041,653,877],"class_list":["post-3125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-entertainment","category-pop-culture","category-television","tag-hailey-glassman","tag-jon-and-kate-plus-8","tag-jon-gosselin","tag-kate-gosselin","tag-kate-plus-8","tag-reality-tv","tag-the-view","tag-tlc","tag-tv"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Jon Gosselin Gets a &#039;Dear John&#039; 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