{"id":15534,"date":"2020-06-24T13:29:33","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T17:29:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/?p=15534"},"modified":"2020-06-24T13:29:33","modified_gmt":"2020-06-24T17:29:33","slug":"steelers-ben-roethlisberger-says-faith-helped-him-fight-porn-alcohol-addictions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/2020\/06\/steelers-ben-roethlisberger-says-faith-helped-him-fight-porn-alcohol-addictions.html","title":{"rendered":"Steelers&#8217; Ben Roethlisberger Says Faith Helped Him Fight Porn, Alcohol Addictions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Steelers quarterback Ben Roethlisberger has been an outspoken Christian football player for years. This year at a virtual conference for Christian men, the Pittsburgh player shared the personal fights he has faced, including addiction to pornography and alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not always easy,&#8221; Roethlisberger said, talking to Tunch Ilkin, a former Steelers player and one of the event&#8217;s hosts. &#8220;People don&#8217;t realize all the time that us athletes, we&#8217;re human. We sin like everybody else. I am no different. We make mistakes. We get addicted to things. We sin. We&#8217;re human. I think sometimes we get put on this pedestal where we can&#8217;t make mistakes. I&#8217;ve fallen as short as anybody. I&#8217;ve been addicted to alcohol. I&#8217;ve been addicted to pornography, which makes me then not the best husband, not the best father, not the best Christian I can be.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But you have to dedicate yourself and understand that you can get out of it because of the grace of God and him saying, &#8216;Listen, you&#8217;re good enough for me the way you are. You don&#8217;t have to be perfect.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The event, ManUp Pittsburgh, is hosted annually to &#8220;encourage and teach men to be godly leaders for their families&#8221; and more. Roethlisberger has been married since 2011 and has three children.<\/p>\n<p>During the conference, Roethlisberger discussed that he was rebaptized three years ago and further shared his Christian journey.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Now more than ever, it&#8217;s cool to be a Christian, especially professional athletes,&#8221; Roethlisberger said. &#8220;One of the things I want to tell guys and tell people out there, I can be a really good athlete and a Christian. It&#8217;s not one or the other. I can do both. I want it to be known to all of the young men out there, it&#8217;s cool to be Christian and be an athlete. Go ahead and be the best athlete you can be and see if you can be a better Christian. And that&#8217;s what I&#8217;m trying to do now. I&#8217;m trying to be a better Christian than I am athlete and football player. I push myself every day to do that, and it starts here. It&#8217;s not always easy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He was open about how his faith wasn&#8217;t always the forefront of his life, and he selfishly put his career first in the earlier days.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Last year, we went through a crazy offseason,&#8221; Roethlisberger said. &#8220;All I thought about was getting back on the football field, and I was like, &#8216;God, you&#8217;re going to give me all this redemption. I&#8217;m going to go out there, I&#8217;m going to prove everybody wrong, I&#8217;m going to win a Super Bowl, and we&#8217;re going to give you all the glory, and this is it. This is my comeback year.&#8217; And the second game, I tear my elbow. That was God being like, &#8216;Hold on, it&#8217;s not your plan of coming back. It&#8217;s got to be my plan.&#8217; So I had to pump the brakes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>During his latest season, Roethlisberger had a season-ending elbow injury. He sees it as a blessing as it brought him closer to the Lord.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m so thankful that this injury happened during my walk that I&#8217;m in now,&#8221; the 38-year-old signal-caller said. &#8220;I don&#8217;t know that I would&#8217;ve been able to handle it a few years ago, five, six, seven, 10 years ago. I know that my faith wouldn&#8217;t have been as strong. Now that I know what it&#8217;s about, it&#8217;s easy to say, &#8216;Hey, God, this is in your hands. 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