{"id":1269,"date":"2007-08-31T13:07:37","date_gmt":"2007-08-31T13:07:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2007\/08\/where-were-you-the-day-diana-d.html"},"modified":"2007-08-31T13:07:37","modified_gmt":"2007-08-31T13:07:37","slug":"where-were-you-the-day-diana-d","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/idolchatter\/2007\/08\/where-were-you-the-day-diana-d.html","title":{"rendered":"The Day Diana Died"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"diana_idol.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/87\/import\/diana_idol.jpg\" width=\"134\" height=\"158\" style=\"float:right;margin: 5px\" \/>As a child, I remember hearing adults talk about the day JFK was shot, recounting with vivid detail where they were when they heard the news. I knew, even as a child, that the death of the president had been a historic tagedy, but sensed that there was an emotional resonance I couldn\u2019t connect with; a personal aspect that I couldn&#8217;t quite grasp. Later, I learned that many people of that generation shared a common sorrow over idealism and hope they felt died that day in Dallas. And yet, it seemed that my generation had never experienced such a visceral, unifying, moment.<br \/>\nOther than distinctly recalling laying on my living room\u2019s shag carpet watching television when I heard about the U.S. bombing of Libya in 1986, I don\u2019t remember where I was during many of the great breaking news stories of the last three decades. But I can describe to you in exhaustive detail where I was the night Diana died, though I won\u2019t. Simply put, I was staying at a friend\u2019s apartment in Park Slope, Brooklyn, watching &#8220;Saturday Night Live&#8221; (Spice Girls were the guests that night).<br \/>\nAt that point, Diana had been rushed to the hospital and had not yet passed away, but I still felt this immense despondency. I was never a devoted royals watcher, so the reaction confused me. But I stood vigil at the television, taking in every iota of information. This is, I thought to myself, my JFK moment.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nCertainly, 9\/11 is this generation\u2019s most poignant JFK moment, but I think for many 30-something women, Diana&#8217;s death was the first moment that historical events collided with personal emotion. Diana was completely relatable: She had self-esteem issues; she had an ogre-ish mother-in-law; she was devoted to her children and her charitable causes; she just wanted to move on from a nasty divorce. Of course, she was no saint&#8211;understanding how to precisely manipulate the media&#8211;although some have <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/idolchatter\/2007\/08\/saint-diana.html\">painted her as one<\/a>.<br \/>\nBut, at that moment, none of that mattered. To many, she was the princess who helped the poor, the graceful swan in a family of stand-offish ducklings, a fiercely protective mother cub. To me, she was an unhappy woman, who had finally found love, only to be cut down. It just wasn\u2019t fair.<br \/>\nFor Diana to die in what finally looked to be a happy relationship after all those years of suffering evoked a tremendous amount of pathos in many people. She appealed to the romantic in all of us; hoping that there was a happily ever after out there for us. A New York Times article reported that women all over New York City were suddenly comparing their own lives to hers at the therapist&#8217;s office (inattentive husband, unsatisfactory new relationships, mean mother-in-law). In a similar way that many lost hope after JFK\u2019s assassination, so too did many find the death of Diana devastating.<br \/>\nTen years has passed and even though there is constant coverage of Princes William and Harry, the days of Diana and her fabulous gowns seem so far away. But I can still recall where I was and what I felt the night Diana died.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a child, I remember hearing adults talk about the day JFK was shot, recounting with vivid detail where they were when they heard the news. 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