{"id":6421,"date":"2019-12-04T20:57:07","date_gmt":"2019-12-04T20:57:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=6421"},"modified":"2019-12-05T14:59:55","modified_gmt":"2019-12-05T14:59:55","slug":"new-selena-gomez-song-empowering-broken-hearted-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2019\/12\/new-selena-gomez-song-empowering-broken-hearted-women.html","title":{"rendered":"The New Selena Gomez Song Empowering Broken-Hearted Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you have ever given away too much of yourself in a relationship&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>If you have ever been in any type of unhealthy relationship&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you have ever felt the need to reclaim yourself&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/files\/2019\/12\/woman-standing-by-one-foot-and-holding-flare-stick-near-1886694.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6431 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/374\/2019\/12\/woman-standing-by-one-foot-and-holding-flare-stick-near-1886694-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"woman-standing-by-one-foot-and-holding-flare-stick-near-1886694\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The song\u00a0<em>Lose You to Love Me<\/em> will speak to you.<\/p>\n<p><em>The lyrics are simple yet profound. The quiet lyrical tone is mesmerizing and the video uncomplicated and haunting. Making this song about restoring one&#8217;s self even more compelling.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I am passionate about breakups and what I refer to as #WomanResurrected.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This hashtag is a nod to reclaiming my identity, regaining my strength, and the spiritual purpose within us all.<\/p>\n<p>Gomez speaks to me with lyrics such as, <em>&#8220;I needed to lose you to find me. I needed to hate you to love me.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Anyone who has found it hard to extricate themselves from a bad relationship understands it&#8217;s not necessarily true hatred.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>But rather an emotion that finally releases us. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If not, we would never give up on that person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is a frustration, an exasperation, which thankfully makes us stop continually seeing the best in someone who treats us the worst.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Hence, delivering us to freedom.\u00a0<\/em><em>The liberty to be our best selves.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Regardless of age, this song will whisper to the broken-hearted.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is a softer version of a Gloria Gaynor&#8217;s\u00a0<em>I Will Survive.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>But nonetheless &#8216;Anthem-esque&#8217; for any and all women who also count themselves as #WomanResurrected.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can give it a listen below.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zlJDTxahav0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The song was released on October 23, 2019, by Selena Gomez. And written by Gomez, Julia Michaels, Justin Tranter, Mattias Larsson, and Robin Fredriksson.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m contributing pieces on Family Today and Medium. Follow me on social me (below) and read them there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@ColleenOrme\">On Medium @ColleenOrme<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/colleenorme\/\"><strong>Follow me on Instagram @colleenorme\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/colleensheehyorme\/\"><strong>Facebook @Colleen Orme National Columnist<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>#WomanResurrected<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Twitter @colleenorme<\/p>\n<p>E-mail: Colleen.Sheehy.Orme@gmail.com<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you have ever given away too much of yourself in a relationship&#8230; If you have ever been in any type of unhealthy relationship&#8230; If you have ever felt the need to reclaim yourself&#8230; The song\u00a0Lose You to Love Me will speak to you. The lyrics are simple yet profound. 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