{"id":5982,"date":"2019-05-06T17:06:28","date_gmt":"2019-05-06T17:06:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=5982"},"modified":"2019-05-06T17:06:28","modified_gmt":"2019-05-06T17:06:28","slug":"determine-counseling-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2019\/05\/determine-counseling-right.html","title":{"rendered":"How to Determine if Counseling is Right for You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It takes guts to go to counseling.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hence, there should be no stigma attached to it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Too many people suffer in silence while many of the world&#8217;s aches and pains are universal.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/files\/2019\/05\/check-curious-eye-41558.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5975 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/374\/2019\/05\/check-curious-eye-41558-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"check-curious-eye-41558\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There is no shame in seeking relief and respite from the worries of the world.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Personal accountability and growth is something to be admired.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Yet, we hide as if it is embarrassing.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s not just personal counseling which seems contraband, it is couples counseling as well. As if one has fallen off the perfect marital wagon. As if there were such a thing. The only thing more imperfect than one human being is trying to meld two beings into one.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This transition takes work.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>And what better to work on than love?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>And who better to work on than ourselves?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The following article from\u00a0<em>Well + Good<\/em>\u00a0asks the question,\u00a0<em>&#8220;What signals an individual&#8217;s need for therapy?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/good-advice\/should-i-see-a-therapist-sign\/<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a great and informative read.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nothing is more important than self-care and self-accountability.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Taking care of ourselves means we are not only happier but have more to give to the world.<\/p>\n<p><em>A win-win&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Personally and for all those we love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Follow me on Facebook @Colleen Orme National Columnist<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Photo Courtesy of Pexels)<\/p>\n<p>Instagram @colleenorme<\/p>\n<p>Twitter @colleenorme<br \/>\nE-mail: Colleen.Sheehy.Orme@gmail.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It takes guts to go to counseling. 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