{"id":5832,"date":"2019-03-20T18:51:29","date_gmt":"2019-03-20T18:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=5832"},"modified":"2019-03-20T18:51:29","modified_gmt":"2019-03-20T18:51:29","slug":"moved-one-town-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2019\/03\/moved-one-town-away.html","title":{"rendered":"How Divorce Turned Me into a City Girl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>I posted a pic on Facebook with the caption, &#8220;My New World&#8221; &#8211; Smiley Face emoji.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I know what my friends must be thinking.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Oh, for Pete&#8217;s sake Colleen! You moved one lousy town away! You didn&#8217;t leave the state!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/files\/2019\/03\/adventure-architecture-bay-196667.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5853 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/374\/2019\/03\/adventure-architecture-bay-196667-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"adventure-architecture-bay-196667\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Of course, to me, I&#8217;ve trudged through mountains, valleys, rivers and more to get here. Maybe even a few swamps and a bit of quicksand. You get the point. It was a major trek to move a mere ten miles or less.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What&#8217;s that children&#8217;s book? Over the hills and through the woods?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s me.<\/p>\n<p><em>So yes, my post was a bit tongue in cheek.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Obviously, I still reside in the same state but the feeling of re-emergence\u00a0<\/strong><strong>is real.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>SO very real.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is MY new town and MY new beginning. Never mind technically it&#8217;s the town I ran the majority of my errands in. But it is different. I grew up in and lived in a rural gem just outside a major metropolitan area. I lived on two acres where the deer and the antelope roamed.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, the deer and the squirrels.<\/p>\n<p>But I promise you it felt like the country.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>So this is<\/em> urban living for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I like to call myself a &#8216;City Girl&#8217; now just like my friend Trixie did before she made the move to the BIG city &#8211; ten miles away or less.<\/p>\n<p>I mean if the <em>Pioneer Woman\u00a0<\/em>can call herself a city girl who moved to the country when in actuality she&#8217;s an Oklahoma girl who moved to the city and then moved back to Oklahoma.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Well then, I am certifiably a proud new &#8216;City Girl.&#8217;\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Never mind that my city consists of only about four city blocks.<\/p>\n<p><strong>One of my high school BFF&#8217;s gets it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>She called and said, &#8220;You&#8217;re Mary Tyler Moore! Single and Living in the City.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yes, I am.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I am Mary Tyler Moore meets Sarah Jessica Parker &#8211; at least in my own mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>The rationalization? I&#8217;m single, I live in the city, AND I write about relationships.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And because it turned out well for the two of them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mary made it in the city and Sarah ended up with Big.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Therefore, it stands to reason I will soon be awash with professional and personal opportunities.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>In the meantime, I will hold onto MTM&#8217;s theme song because, well, I like the ending.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Who can turn the world on with her smile?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Who can take a nothing day, and suddenly make it all seem worthwhile?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Well it&#8217;s you girl, and you should know it<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>With each glance and every little movement, you show it<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Love is all around, no need to waste it<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>You can have the town, why don&#8217;t you take it?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>You&#8217;re gonna make it after all<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>You&#8217;re gonna make it after all!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Follow me on Facebook @Colleen Orme National Columnist<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Photo Courtesy of Pexels)<\/p>\n<p>Instagram @colleenorme<\/p>\n<p>Twitter @colleenorme<br \/>\nE-mail: Colleen.Sheehy.Orme@gmail.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I posted a pic on Facebook with the caption, &#8220;My New World&#8221; &#8211; Smiley Face emoji. 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