{"id":486,"date":"2015-03-05T18:24:42","date_gmt":"2015-03-05T18:24:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=486"},"modified":"2015-11-30T22:16:42","modified_gmt":"2015-11-30T22:16:42","slug":"8-phrases-that-signify-zero-respect-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2015\/03\/8-phrases-that-signify-zero-respect-in-a-relationship.html","title":{"rendered":"8 Phrases That Signify Zero Respect in a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am a writer. I am also a marketer.<\/p>\n

This is my world view.<\/p>\n

I am all about stories and connecting the dots from beginning to end. I am also about problem solving and connecting the dots until something is made profitable and works even better than it once did.<\/p>\n

I now see relationships through the lens of marketing.<\/p>\n

I wish someone had taught me what I term an ’emotional vocabulary.’ The phrases that usher in love and the ones that cast love aside. If I had learned these phrases that either beautify a relationship or destroy it I would have understood what I call ’emotional profitability’ much sooner.<\/p>\n

So why is respect so important to love?<\/p>\n

Disrespect = Don’t Care<\/p>\n

It means I care more about my opinion than listening to what you feel. This is contradictory to love.<\/p>\n

Respect = I Do Care<\/p>\n

I always say that “Respect means you don\u2019t have to understand or agree with something for it to be someone else\u2019s truth.”<\/p>\n

These are 8 phrases that signify a lack of respect in a relationship.<\/p>\n

I don’t care
\nWhy does that matter to you
\nThat shouldn’t bother you
\nThat’s silly
\nThat’s ridiculous
\nYou’re making a big deal out of nothing
\nThat’s not my problem
\nYou’re overreacting<\/p>\n

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