{"id":394,"date":"2015-01-31T22:10:23","date_gmt":"2015-01-31T22:10:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=394"},"modified":"2015-01-31T22:10:23","modified_gmt":"2015-01-31T22:10:23","slug":"actions-that-signify-danger-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2015\/01\/actions-that-signify-danger-in-a-relationship.html","title":{"rendered":"Actions That Signify Danger in a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are small things that mean bigs things in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Are you in a relationship with someone that during an argument or when you are attempting to express your feelings:<\/p>\n

Walks out of the room or out of the house?
\nSits silently with absolutely no response?
\nHangs up the phone on you?
\nDismisses you by continuing to do whatever they were doing?
\nPretends they didn’t hear you?
\nSabatoges events or days that are important to you?
\nAgrees to do something and then does not?<\/p>\n

These actions this signify not only poor communication and respect, but they also indicate a need to be in control.<\/p>\n

These are the big things. These small actions that take down love.<\/p>\n

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