{"id":386,"date":"2015-01-30T16:59:25","date_gmt":"2015-01-30T16:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=386"},"modified":"2015-01-30T17:00:33","modified_gmt":"2015-01-30T17:00:33","slug":"you-cant-argue-without-two-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2015\/01\/you-cant-argue-without-two-people.html","title":{"rendered":"You Can’t Argue Without Two People"},"content":{"rendered":"

A wise person recently told me that you can’t argue if you don’t have two people. <\/p>\n

Arguing is a choice.<\/p>\n

I spent the past few years arguing because I was frustrated that the person I was with didn’t seem to care if I was happy, sad, worried, or stressed. I often regret that time wasted and more importantly I hate the person that it made me. It is an ugliness within all of us that arguing unmasks. <\/p>\n

If someone doesn’t care no amount of arguing is going to resurrect something that doesn’t exist. It’s just going to make you into less of who you are.<\/p>\n

Arguing is a choice.<\/p>\n

Today I would love myself enough to walk away.<\/p>\n

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