{"id":2494,"date":"2016-09-30T02:02:50","date_gmt":"2016-09-30T02:02:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=2494"},"modified":"2016-09-30T02:03:45","modified_gmt":"2016-09-30T02:03:45","slug":"the-women-who-got-me-through","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2016\/09\/the-women-who-got-me-through.html","title":{"rendered":"The One Place Women Don&#8217;t Want to Meet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I sink comfortably into the couch and toss the blanket over me. I grab the clicker and flip through the channels and land on a program about first-time mothers. <\/p>\n<p><em>A few tears take residence in my eyes.<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n<em>I remember being a first-time mom.<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\nI remember the playgroup girls I started out with that gave me the strength and the support and the laughter and the community.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/files\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-48520.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/374\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-48520-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"pexels-photo-48520\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-2838\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<strong>I remember the women that got me through.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I remember high school and the girls I started out with that gave me the strength and the support and the laughter the community.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I remember the women that got me through.<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>I remember hitting the streets of Scranton and meeting the college girls who gave me the strength and the support and the laughter and the community.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I remember the women that got me through.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I remember moving back to my home state as my children started preschool and the women that I met that gave me the strength and the support and the laughter and the community.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I remember the women that got me through.<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/files\/2016\/09\/girls-women-happy-sexy-53364.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/374\/2016\/09\/girls-women-happy-sexy-53364-300x199.jpeg\" alt=\"girls-women-happy-sexy-53364\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-2839\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nI remember being a young mother frolicking with her kids at the Jersey shore and the women that gave me the strength and the support and the laughter and the community.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I remember the women that got me through.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now I am divorcing&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not the adolescent premiere of high school, nor the excitement of college, nor the joy of motherhood.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not a part of the hopes and dreams we have in life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s not a place where girls want to meet.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yet, they have. <\/p>\n<p><strong>I remember all of these women and how they have gotten me through.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Follow me on Facebook @Colleen Orme National Columnist<br \/>\non Twitter @colleenorme<br \/>\non Pinterest @colleensheehyorme<br \/>\nE-mail: Colleen.Sheehy.Orme@gmail.com<br \/>\nwww.colleensheehyorme.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I sink comfortably into the couch and toss the blanket over me. 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