{"id":110,"date":"2014-09-02T17:28:12","date_gmt":"2014-09-02T17:28:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/?p=110"},"modified":"2014-09-02T17:28:12","modified_gmt":"2014-09-02T17:28:12","slug":"the-one-piece-of-advice-my-uncle-the-priest-left-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2014\/09\/the-one-piece-of-advice-my-uncle-the-priest-left-me.html","title":{"rendered":"The One Piece of Advice My Uncle The Priest Left Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I grab for a book and realize my heart is too heavy and my mind too crowded to absorb it. I know that in the struggle of divorce there are days where no energy exists to absorb words of wisdom despite the fact that I crave them.<\/p>\n<p>I am reminded why I write this column. I try and make my words brief since life distraction demands it. I am reminded of the limits that we possess during pain.<\/p>\n<p>I am reminded of my uncle the priest. I am reminded of what he would have told me today when self-help and inspiration evades me. It is something my family reminds me through gentle, nudging texts.<\/p>\n<p>I am reminded of letting go.<\/p>\n<p>I am reminded of faith which is in essence&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.\u2018letting go.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>I will not get where I am intended if I do not.<\/p>\n<p>I am reminded of the one single piece of advice my uncle always gave me. It never changed. It did not matter if it was a different day and a different struggle. My uncle, Father Pat always reminded me of his favorite Proverb 3:5-7. It has become my mantra in life and I lean on it often through this divorce.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTrust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and he will make straight your paths.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I grab for a book and realize my heart is too heavy and my mind too crowded to absorb it. I know that in the struggle of divorce there are days where no energy exists to absorb words of wisdom despite the fact that I crave them. 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