{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"How Great Thou Part","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart","author_name":"Colleen Sheehy Orme","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/author\/corme","title":"Don't Play the Role of Victim in Divorce - How Great Thou Part","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"Nl8LcNWRbI\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2016\/08\/dont-be-a-victim.html\">Don&#8217;t Play the Role of Victim in Divorce<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/2016\/08\/dont-be-a-victim.html\/embed#?secret=Nl8LcNWRbI\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Don&#8217;t Play the Role of Victim in Divorce&#8221; &#8212; How Great Thou Part\" data-secret=\"Nl8LcNWRbI\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"I spent plenty of time feeling sorry for myself. Why my marriage? Why my family? Why is history repeating itself? Why are my greatest fears coming true? Why me? It is wasted time playing the victim. Albeit, human nature. I refer to it as fighting God. I couldn&#8217;t understand why a dream as simple as&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/howgreatthoupart\/files\/2016\/08\/woman-portrait-girl-color-90754-300x179.jpeg"}