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</html><description>Some divorces are simple. They involve two mature adults who have the ability to be rational despite the demise of their relationship. Other divorces are brutal. They involve one or more adults who have zero ability to be rational despite the demise of their relationship. Why? It boils down to one ridiculously simple word&#x2026; CONTROL&hellip;</description><thumbnail_url>http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/howgreatthoupart/files/2017/10/pexels-photo-442576-300x200.jpeg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
