1.0How Great Thou Parthttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/howgreatthoupartColleen Sheehy Ormehttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/howgreatthoupart/author/cormeAre Controlling People Confident? - How Great Thou Partrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="0BuvrYCnR4"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/howgreatthoupart/2016/06/are-controlling-people-confident.html">Are Controlling People Confident?</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/howgreatthoupart/2016/06/are-controlling-people-confident.html/embed#?secret=0BuvrYCnR4" width="600" height="338" title="“Are Controlling People Confident?” — How Great Thou Part" data-secret="0BuvrYCnR4" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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There are plenty of controlling personalities that appear confident. They can be outgoing, take charge, competent, get the job done kind of people. However, the very nature of being controlling is a contradiction to absolute confidence. There may be confidence, but not authentic, full confidence. Why? Individuals who need to be in control can be…http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/howgreatthoupart/files/2016/06/bow-tie-businessman-fashion-man-300x200.jpg