{"id":4,"date":"2009-03-02T19:00:54","date_gmt":"2009-03-02T19:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/homeshuling\/2009\/03\/oh-my-oh-once-oh-my-oh-twice.html"},"modified":"2009-03-02T19:00:54","modified_gmt":"2009-03-02T19:00:54","slug":"oh-my-oh-once-oh-my-oh-twice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/homeshuling\/2009\/03\/oh-my-oh-once-oh-my-oh-twice.html","title":{"rendered":"Oh my oh, once. Oh my oh, twice."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-caption alignleft\" style=\"width:300px\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-58\" src=\"https:\/\/homeshuling.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/03\/phpnb5nwspm1.jpg?w=300\" alt=\"See the milk situated treacherously close to our fleishig soup? We like to live on the edge around here.\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" \/> <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">See the milk situated treacherously close to our fleishig soup? We like to live on the edge around here.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>A friend and colleague was recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She&#8217;s about a week out of surgery and starting chemo soon. It&#8217;s almost impossible to know how to reach out to her &#8211; what can I say that would be even remotely comforting?<br \/>\nThe only thing I really know to do is to take her food. It&#8217;s what Jews do. I&#8217;ll never forget how wonderful it was to have dinners from both dear friends and near strangers arrive at our doorstep for weeks after each of my c-sections. Almost every meal came from a member of our shul. (One strong argument for joining a synagogue even if we&#8217;re not going to attend.) I promised myself that I would pay that mitzvah forward, and this week I actually have two opportunities to prepare meals for congregants in need of care. Not only do I feel as if I&#8217;m doing something useful, but coming with a bag of food gives us something to talk about other than illness &#8211; recipes!<br \/>\nI brought my colleague a pot of chicken soup. It&#8217;s the first poultry dish I learned to cook when I abandoned vegetarianism during my second pregnancy. It&#8217;s hardly a recipe at all &#8211; but trust me, you will love it. Adapted from the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.houghtonmifflinbooks.com\/features\/gourmet\/\" target=\"_blank\">Gourmet Cookbook<\/a> by Ruth Reichl.<br \/>\nOne onion\/2 carrots\/2 stalks of celery\/one 3-4 lb chicken (we use Empire)\/one cup uncooked brown rice or barley\/parsley<br \/>\nCut up all the vegetables and throw them in a pot with the rice\/barley and a whole chicken (really!) Cover with cold water. Bring to a boil. Simmer until the chicken is cooked. Put the chicken in a colander. After the chicken cools down, remove the skin and throw it out. Then shred the chicken and toss it back in the pot with some parsley. Skim fat and reheat.<br \/>\nThe trick is not to overcook the chicken. I use a meat thermometer and pull out the chicken as soon as it hits 165. And the brown rice isn&#8217;t just because I want to impress you with our healthy eating habits &#8211; the texture is really integral to the recipe. Sometimes I add some veggie bouillon cubes along with the salt and pepper if it needs a little oomph.<br \/>\nThis soup is amazing. I just wish it could cure cancer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 See the milk situated treacherously close to our fleishig soup? We like to live on the edge around here. A friend and colleague was recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She&#8217;s about a week out of surgery and starting chemo soon. 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