{"id":99,"date":"2010-11-05T18:22:28","date_gmt":"2010-11-05T18:22:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/2010\/11\/and-this-too-shall-pass.html"},"modified":"2010-11-05T18:22:28","modified_gmt":"2010-11-05T18:22:28","slug":"and-this-too-shall-pass","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2010\/11\/and-this-too-shall-pass.html","title":{"rendered":"And This Too Shall Pass"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\" face=\"Calibri\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">There are ebbs and flows in life.<br \/>What is full must empty.<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">There is a season for everything.<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><i><span><font size=\"3\">Some wise words from the I Ching<\/font><\/span><\/i><span><font size=\"3\">:<\/p>\n<p>It is in the dark moments that a correct attitude is most important.<br \/>If we fight against the darkness, we are swallowed by it and suffer great misfortune.<br \/>If we react to the lack of visible progress with despair and negativity, we extinguish our own inner light <\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">and block the aid of the Creative and the Higher Power.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>If we try to persuade others that they must return<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">to the light, we exhaust ourselves in vain now.<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">In a time such as this, it is wise to adopt a stance of outer disengagement and inner perseverance,<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">Do not focus on or interact with the negative influences around you; this only strengthens their grip<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">on you.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Step aside, yield, let go, allow people and events to pass without attachment.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Direct your<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">attention inside, to <i>your <\/i>inner light, <i>your<\/i> devotion to what is right, <i>your<\/i> conversation with the Higher Power.<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">During this time, I came across a lizard in our back yard while I was in the midst of this process and situation.&nbsp; <\/font><\/span><span><font size=\"3\">My wife shared the following information regarding our friend, the lizard:<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&#8216;One of the most significant characteristics of some lizards and their claim to fame is the ability of the tail <\/font><\/span><span><font size=\"3\">to come off.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>A predator may grab for it, only to be surprised that the tail breaks off and the lizard scampers <\/font><\/span><span><font size=\"3\">to freedom.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The lizard then begins the process of growing another in its place.<\/p>\n<p>This detachment is also part of what the lizard can teach.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>They can help us to become more detached in life <\/font><\/span><span><font size=\"3\">to survive.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Sometimes it is necessary to separate ourselves or part of ourselves from others to be able to do the things we most desire to do.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The lizard helps us to awaken that ability for objective detachment so that it can occur with the least amount of difficulty.&#8217;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">Even in the toughest times, there is light, there is hope and there is growth.<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">Life is good!<span>&nbsp; <\/span>God is good and the universe supports us!<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">smiles,<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\">\ud83d\ude42&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><span><font size=\"3\">Lee<br \/>aka<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><i><span><font size=\"3\">The Mega Coach<\/font><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><i><span><font size=\"3\"><\/font><\/span><\/i>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><i><span><font size=\"3\"><\/font><\/span><\/i>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><i><span><font size=\"3\"><\/font><\/span><\/i>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; 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