{"id":8257,"date":"2013-12-11T00:00:26","date_gmt":"2013-12-11T05:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=8257"},"modified":"2013-12-10T22:57:01","modified_gmt":"2013-12-11T03:57:01","slug":"the-last-cab-ride","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2013\/12\/the-last-cab-ride.html","title":{"rendered":"The Last Cab Ride"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/12\/The-Last-Cab-Ride.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8258\" alt=\"The Last Cab Ride\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/12\/The-Last-Cab-Ride.jpg\" width=\"520\" height=\"315\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--[if !mso]&gt;--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">I arrived at the address and honked the horn.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">After waiting a few minutes I walked to the door and knocked.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018Just a minute\u2019, answered a frail, elderly voice. <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">I could hear something being dragged across the floor.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">After a long pause, the door opened.\u00a0 A small woman in her 90&#8217;s stood before me.\u00a0 She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940&#8217;s movie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">By her side was a small nylon suitcase.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">All the furniture was covered with sheets.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">There were no locks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">\u2018Would you carry my bag out to the car?\u2019 she said.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">She kept thanking me for my kindness.\u00a0 \u2018It\u2019s nothing\u2019, I told her.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.\u2019<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">\u2018Oh, you\u2019re such a good boy, she said.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, \u2018Could you drive through downtown?\u2019<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">\u2018It\u2019s not the shortest way,\u2019 I answered quickly.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"> <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018Oh, I don\u2019t mind,\u2019 she said.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018I\u2019m in no hurry. I\u2019m on my way to a hospice.\u00a0\u2019<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">I looked in the rear-view mirror.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">Her eyes were glistening.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018I don\u2019t have any family left,\u2019 she continued in a soft voice..<\/span> t<span style=\"color: navy\">he doctor says I don\u2019t have very long.\u2019<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018What route would you like me to take?\u2019 I asked.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">For the next two hours, we drove through the city.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.\u00a0 Sometimes she\u2019d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, \u2018I\u2019m tired.\u00a0 Let\u2019s go now\u2019.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">We drove in silence to the address she had given me.\u00a0 It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">They must have been expecting her.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">\u2018How much do I owe you?\u2019\u00a0 She asked, reaching into her purse.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018Nothing,\u2019 I said.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">You have to make a living,\u2019 she answered.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018There are other passengers,\u2019 I responded.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">She held onto me tightly.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,\u2019 she said.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">\u2018Thank you.\u2019<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Behind me, a door shut.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">It was the sound of the closing of a life..<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">I didn\u2019t pick up any more passengers that shift.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\"><span style=\"color: navy\">I drove aimlessly lost in thought.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">What if I had refused to take the run,\u00a0 or had honked once, then driven away?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif';color: navy\">On a quick review,\u00a0 I don\u2019t think that I have done anything more important in my life.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Verdana','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">We\u2019re conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.<\/span>\u00a0 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