{"id":7391,"date":"2013-08-30T00:00:19","date_gmt":"2013-08-30T04:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=7391"},"modified":"2013-09-02T21:27:44","modified_gmt":"2013-09-03T01:27:44","slug":"you-can-have-the-relationship-of-your-dreams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2013\/08\/you-can-have-the-relationship-of-your-dreams.html","title":{"rendered":"You Can Have the Relationship of Your Dreams"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2013\/08\/heart-is-full.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-7392\" alt=\"heart is full\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/08\/heart-is-full-300x225.jpeg\" width=\"428\" height=\"308\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--[if !mso]&gt;--><\/p>\n<p><strong><\/strong><strong><i><span style=\"color: navy\">\u201cOnly 15% of a person\u2019s success is due to their technical ability, while 85% is due to their ability to get along with people.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Catherine Ponder<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">You can have wonderful, expressive, fun, empowering and fulfilling relationships!\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">The secret is that it starts with you because you attract and create your life.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Is your desire true and are you willing to go total?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">It is not a coincidence how people treat you and respond to you.<\/span>\u00a0 In fact, y<span style=\"color: navy\">ou train others how to treat you.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">They pick up on your energy and communication.\u00a0 You are communicating every moment whether you actually say anything verbally.\u00a0 Words are 7%, tone is 38% and body language is 55% of communication.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Be an example of what you want in your life.\u00a0 Especially since you are a magnet that attracts other people, situations and opportunities.\u00a0 Be the kind of person that deserves the relationships of your dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">Do your primary relationship skills and patterns only affect your love life?\u00a0 Don\u2019t they also impact all of your friendships, work relationships and most importantly, your family? \u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000080\">How much do your relationships affect your financial and career success?\u00a0 Communication is a powerful force.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><i><span style=\"color: navy\">\u201cThe Quality of my life is directly related to the quality of my communication, with myself and with others.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Conscious awareness, kindness, compassion, tenderness, giving, unconditional love and quality communication are key qualities that make a relationship attractive and desirable for the long term.\u00a0 Do you have these qualities?\u00a0 If not, you can develop them and you can always improve them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Whatever the current state of your relationships, you can transform them by transforming yourself.\u00a0 The secret is to look inside yourself and take responsibility instead of blaming your partner.\u00a0 After all, how can you ask your partner to be or do something that you are not willing to be or do?\u00a0 Who would want to have a long term relationship with someone who was not kind, caring, loving and a good friend?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">No matter how challenging your current relationship may be, you can make a quantum leap.<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"color: navy\"> You can be a good communicator and listener.\u00a0 You can be more sincere and interested.\u00a0 You can be a wonderful partner.\u00a0 Anything is possible and the great news is it\u2019s up to you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Make your life and relationships heaven on earth and manifest the divine plan of your life, under grace and in perfect ways!<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">blessings,<br \/>\n\ud83d\ude42 Lee<br \/>\n<em>The MEGA Coach<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2013\/08\/The-purpose-of-relationship.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-7395\" alt=\"The-purpose-of-relationship\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/08\/The-purpose-of-relationship-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><i><span style=\"color: navy\">\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cOnly 15% of a person\u2019s success is due to their technical ability, while 85% is due to their 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