{"id":7350,"date":"2013-08-27T00:00:27","date_gmt":"2013-08-27T04:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=7350"},"modified":"2013-08-28T16:58:04","modified_gmt":"2013-08-28T20:58:04","slug":"magical-fulfilling-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2013\/08\/magical-fulfilling-relationships.html","title":{"rendered":"Magical, Fulfilling Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Do you have unconditionally loving and fulfilling relationships?<\/span>\u00a0 When you are with someone you are attracted to are you present in the moment with them?\u00a0 Do you fully associate to the joy and fulfillment available?\u00a0 Do you tune in to what’s going on with them and listen?
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Most people are so busy thinking about other things instead of being with the person they are with.\u00a0 Like, what am I going to say, do they like me, when should I make my move?\u00a0 Does this sound familiar?\u00a0 Maybe you have your own questions or chatter.\u00a0 Are you texting and playing with your cell phone while with another person?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are busy thinking about anything else other than the person you are with how can you be fully present with them?\u00a0 When you are thinking, or concerned about how it\u2019s going, then you are not engaged in being with the other person.\u00a0 Magic happens in those special, little moments that most people miss because they are distracted and somewhere else.<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you in the past, present or future when you are asking someone for a date or when spending \u201cquality time<\/em>.\u201d\u00a0 Maybe your thinking about something you have to do later.\u00a0 Maybe something from earlier in the day is nagging at you.\u00a0\u00a0T<\/strong><\/em>he point of greatest power is always the present moment<\/em><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

How important is it for you to be present to experience true communication and clarity to connect with another person?\u00a0 How important is active listening when you are with another person?\u00a0 Active listening is listening from the point of view of the speaker.\u00a0 It does not mean trying to finish their sentences while they are speaking, or figuring out what you are going to say, or trying to come up with something cool to impress them.\u00a0 Do you see how easy it is to be distracted or occupied when you are actually wanting to be with someone or make a good impression?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you expect to create wonderful, meaningful, fun and passionate relationships with someone if you are not really there with them?\u00a0 What do you think the other person is feeling when they sense you are not really listening to them or are not connecting with them?\u00a0 Maybe they think you do not really like them?\u00a0\u00a0 How does this affects your results?
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These patterns do not just affect romantic relationships.\u00a0 They affect family interactions between parents and their children and between relatives.\u00a0 Does the quality of your communication affect everyone in your life, especially you?\u00a0 What would happen if you were present when you communicate with your children and taught them by your example?<\/span><\/p>\n

Take a look at your business relationships \u2013 jobs, interviews, opportunities, contracts, sales, training, merger, etc. \u2013 You succeed or fail by the quality of being present, and your listening skills.\u00a0 What about your body language, tone and words?\u00a0 Communication is made up of so many nuances and components that can either enhance or destroy potential outcomes and relationships?<\/span><\/p>\n

What if you could improve the quality of your communication?<\/span>
\nWhat if you could learn powerful information to be more present and become a good listener?<\/span>
\nWhat if you could become a master communicator?<\/span>
\nHow would this change your life, your business and your success?<\/span><\/p>\n

These subjects and more along with great ideas and solutions can be found in Ariel and Shya Kanes\u2019 book, \u201cHow to Have A Match Made in Heaven<\/span><\/a><\/span>.\u201d<\/b><\/em>\u00a0 The Kanes have been communication specialists for decades and have coached and consulted thousands of individuals, couples and companies.\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember, the most important person that you communicate with every moment is YOU<\/strong>!<\/span><\/p>\n

smiles,<\/span>
\n\ud83d\ude42 Lee<\/span>
\nThe MEGA Coach<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

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