{"id":6796,"date":"2013-06-24T00:00:39","date_gmt":"2013-06-24T04:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=6796"},"modified":"2013-06-23T19:27:07","modified_gmt":"2013-06-23T23:27:07","slug":"turn-frustration-into-fascination","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2013\/06\/turn-frustration-into-fascination.html","title":{"rendered":"Turn Frustration Into Fascination!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2013\/06\/Growth.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6797\" alt=\"Growth\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/06\/Growth-300x300.jpg\" width=\"378\" height=\"359\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--[if !mso]&gt;--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Are you feeling any stress in your health, relationships, career or finances?\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">Life has pain and discomfort and no one can escape it.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">By not resisting it you can transcend it.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">You can turn your disadvantages into advantages, your losses into gains.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">The key is not necessarily doing something different, but being different.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Allow life to be the way it is, do not resist it or try to change it.\u00a0 Feel it and let go.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Ride the horse in the direction it is going and use the flow to empower yourself to take your best action at the most appropriate time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Find ways to discover advantages in your disadvantages.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Opportunities are always within a problem.\u00a0 <em><strong>It is a matter of perspective<\/strong><\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Remember, your perceptions color all of your thoughts, decisions, feelings and actions.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Stop taking things personally or being a victim.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Life happens.\u00a0 Disengage from the negativity and seek a clear perspective.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">This clarity will allow you to be objective and create optimal solutions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Most of all, give yourself some grace.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">You are the way you are and it is not a mistake.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">It does not matter what your present circumstances are.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">This is the hand you were dealt in life and this is where you must begin.\u00a0 Regardless of the people, circumstances or situation, you can succeed!<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Complaining will not help, it wastes your vital energy and resources and attracts more negativity.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Just let go and allow what is to be the way it is.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">As my friends Ariel and Shya Kane say, \u201cClose the complaint department!\u201d\u00a0 Observe without judgment and discover where you really are and what is best for you now.\u00a0 Then take appropriate action.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">You can grow, transform and be successful from exactly where you are now.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Use whatever challenges you have as opportunities for growth and development.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">The greater the challenge, the greater the potential success or triumph!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">So stop looking back, or driving while looking in your rear-view mirror.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Go forward.\u00a0 Be positive, encourage yourself and others.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Give yourself and others grace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">You will transform your problems into solutions and your fears and frustration into fascination.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">blessings,<\/span><br \/>\n\ud83d\ude42 <span style=\"color: navy\">Lee<\/span><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: navy\">The MEGA Coach<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2013\/06\/bloom.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6798\" alt=\"bloom\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/06\/bloom-300x112.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"112\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you feeling any stress in your health, relationships, career or finances?\u00a0 Life has pain and discomfort and no one can escape it.\u00a0 By not resisting it you can transcend it.\u00a0 You can turn your disadvantages into 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