{"id":6616,"date":"2013-05-29T00:00:26","date_gmt":"2013-05-29T04:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=6616"},"modified":"2013-05-28T22:04:01","modified_gmt":"2013-05-29T02:04:01","slug":"optimist-or-pessimist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2013\/05\/optimist-or-pessimist.html","title":{"rendered":"Optimist or Pessimist?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2013\/05\/success-or-failure.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6617\" alt=\"success or failure\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2013\/05\/success-or-failure-210x300.jpg\" width=\"257\" height=\"362\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><!--[if !mso]&gt;--><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: navy\">A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity;<\/span><\/em><i><span style=\"color: navy\"><br \/>\n<em>An optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Life is an opportunity.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Every moment contains within it exactly what you need to grow and thrive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Being physically healthy is such a vital part of living a successful life.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Don\u2019t you agree?<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">What about your mental and emotional health?<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">How much does your mental and emotional health contribute to your physical and financial health?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">To have a positive attitude you must be optimistic about yourself and life.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">You expect good things, good situations and good opportunities.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">You remain positive and optimistic in the face of negative appearances.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">You are strong mentally and emotionally.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: navy\">Optimists smile frequently and pessimists frown.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">Optimistic people look at problems as temporary setbacks and look to create solutions.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">Pessimistic people look at problems as permanent and do not think they can do anything to change them.\u00a0 They complain a lot.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">There is a big difference in reacting vs. responding to life, situations and circumstances.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">An optimist looks at challenges and responds creativity where as a pessimist looks a challenges and complains, reacts and tends to be a victim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">Optimists see challenges, problems and difficulties as opportunities for growth, creativity and success.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: navy\">They have a healthy attitude and know that every adversity contains within it the seed of an equal of greater benefit!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">An optimist stays cool, calm and collected in the face of challenges.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">They see clearly what is happening and make better decisions and create solutions.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">An optimist is more healthy because they are less stressed about life and situations.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: navy\">An optimist also has more energy and a higher vibration because they take things more lightly than pessimists.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">What is your pattern?\u00a0 It is either victim or victory!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">Have a wonderful and prosperous day!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: navy\">smiles,<\/span><br \/>\n\ud83d\ude42 <span style=\"color: navy\">Lee<\/span><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: navy\">The MEGA Coach<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 11.0pt;font-family: 'Calibri','sans-serif';color: purple\">Below is a video about the oldest living Holocaust survivor.<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11.0pt;font-family: 'Calibri','sans-serif'\">\u00a0 <span style=\"color: purple\">Her attitude is remarkable.<\/span>\u00a0 <span style=\"color: purple\">She is grateful and optimistic about life even after living through what most people would consider a nightmare.<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"109-yr-old Holocaust Survivor wisdom: &quot;Look for the Beauty in Life&quot;\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OnoQ8F_CUfE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; 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