{"id":4425,"date":"2012-09-04T00:00:56","date_gmt":"2012-09-04T04:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=4425"},"modified":"2012-09-05T00:24:56","modified_gmt":"2012-09-05T04:24:56","slug":"the-relationships-of-your-dreams-are-possible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2012\/09\/the-relationships-of-your-dreams-are-possible.html","title":{"rendered":"The Relationships of Your Dreams Are Possible!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2012\/09\/The-purpose-of-relationship2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4456\" title=\"The-purpose-of-relationship\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2012\/09\/The-purpose-of-relationship2-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><br \/>\n<em><strong>&#8220;The Quality of my life is directly related to the quality of my communication, with myself and with others.&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/span><em><strong><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><em><strong>&#8220;Only 15% of a person&#8217;s success is due to their technical ability, while 85% is due to their ability to get along with people.&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Catherine Ponder<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">You can have wonderful, expressive, fun, empowering and fulfilling relationships! <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080;\">The secret is that it starts with you because you attract and create your life.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080;\">Is your desire true and are you willing to go total?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">It is not a coincidence how people treat you and respond to you.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080;\">You train people how to treat you.\u00a0 <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080;\">They pick up on your energy and communication.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Doesn&#8217;t it make sense that you should be an example of what you want in your life?<br \/>\nShouldn&#8217;t you be the kind of person that deserves the relationships of your dreams?<br \/>\nDo you think your relationship skills and patterns only affect your love life?<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t they impact all of your friendships, work relationships and most importantly, your family?<br \/>\nHow much do your relationships and communication affect your financial and career success?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Conscious awareness, kindness, compassion, tenderness, giving, unconditional love and quality communication are some of the key qualities that make a relationship attractive and desirable for the long term.\u00a0 Do you have these qualities?\u00a0 If not you can always develop them and if you already have them you can always improve them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Whatever the current state of your relationships, you can transform them by transforming yourself.\u00a0 After all, how can you ask your partner to be or do something that you are not willing to be or do?\u00a0 Who would want to have a long term relationship with someone who was not kind, caring, loving and a good friend?\u00a0 Communication is so powerful and remember that you communicate silently with your eyes, energy, body language and energy even more than with your tone and words.\u00a0 All are important contributors to healthy, thriving relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">What&#8217;s exciting is that anything is possible and no matter how bad your current relationships are, you can make a quantum leap.<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000080;\"> You can become a good communicator and listener.\u00a0 You can become a wonderful partner.<\/span><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u00a0 It&#8217;s up to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Many years ago, I promised myself that I would heal the patterns of communication and relating in my life and family and create healthy relationships.\u00a0 It was the most important thing in my life and I vowed that I would become a healthy example.\u00a0 I focused and searched for all possible information, books, seminars, guides and support.\u00a0 Fortunately, I met Michael Wyman and Ariel &amp; 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