{"id":4394,"date":"2012-08-30T00:00:18","date_gmt":"2012-08-30T04:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=4394"},"modified":"2012-08-30T13:06:58","modified_gmt":"2012-08-30T17:06:58","slug":"creating-wonderful-relationships-key-factors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2012\/08\/creating-wonderful-relationships-key-factors.html","title":{"rendered":"Creating Wonderful Relationships – Key Factors"},"content":{"rendered":"

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To find more keys click on \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 http:\/\/www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com\/bookpromo\/<\/span><\/a> <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Who is the most important person when it comes to creating wonderful relationships?
\nYou or me?\u00a0 Well, both are important.
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Where does creating wonderful relationships begin?
\nThe answer is in yourself.
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The starting point is always me, because I am the source of my experience and my energy, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions create my world and results.\u00a0 This is what makes life such a dashing, bold adventure.\u00a0 Anything is possible and I can design my life how I choose.\u00a0 Freedom of choice is powerful and with it one must also acknowledge comes total responsibility.\u00a0 We are each free to create whatever life and relationships we want.<\/span><\/p>\n

Since you are the starting point, what do you truly want in your life?\u00a0 Are your relationships working?\u00a0 Right now, you can answer this question easily by simply looking at your life and observing the relationships you have and their quality of communication, clarity, joy, success, love, results and fulfillment.\u00a0 This is the reality you have created so far based on your choices to date.\u00a0 Good news is if you like what you have you created it.\u00a0 Bad news is if you do not like what you have you created it.\u00a0 Excellent news is you have the power to make new and even better choices to have more wonderful results.\u00a0 Also, if your life and relationships are going well, they can even get better!<\/span><\/p>\n

The title of chapter 4 of Ariel & Shya Kane’s new book is “A Match Made In Heaven Starts With You<\/em><\/strong>.”\u00a0 Here a little taste of this exceptional information:<\/span><\/p>\n

“In order to build a strong foundation for relationship, you must first investigate your relationship with yourself.\u00a0 If you are unkind to yourself, you will ultimately be unkind to anyone who forms a partnership with you.\u00a0 When you connect with another, he or she becomes an extension of you.\u00a0 Ultimately, you will pick on that person in the same manner that you pick on yourself.\u00a0 Think back to disagreements you’ve had with others in your life.\u00a0 Haven’t the worst fights or meanest arguments happened with those you love?\u00a0 That is because Heaven on Earth begins with you,\u00a0 If you are in turmoil inside, there will be no peace in your relationship.<\/strong><\/em>“<\/span><\/p>\n

The Three Principles of Instantaneous Transformation:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

1) Anything you resist, persists, grows stronger and dominates your life and relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

2) No two things can occupy the same space at the same time.<\/span>
\nYou can only be doing one thing in any given moment of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

3) Anything you allow to be exactly as it is will complete itself and dissolve all on its own.<\/span><\/p>\n


\nLife always shows up with just the appropriate information to give you the best possible experience.\u00a0 Just yesterday I had a situation occur with a close family member that completely demonstrated these exact principles.\u00a0 As a matter of fact, it presented me with the perfect information for this blog on creating wonderful relationships.
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You can create good relationships or bad relationships and it starts with you.\u00a0 We all like when things go well or in our favor and that is great.\u00a0 When it comes to relationships we all have experienced both the good and the bad, but when life is challenging, that is the true test of your courage, sincerity and of your principles.<\/span><\/p>\n

The best place to start is be kind to yourself and to be kind to others.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cKindness is a language that we all can understand. <\/strong><\/em>
\nEven the blind can see it and the deaf can hear it.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mother Teresa<\/p>\n

Ariel & Shya’s new book, “<\/strong><\/span>How to Have A Match Made in Heaven<\/span><\/strong>” is coming out Sept. 4th.<\/span><\/p>\n

Click on<\/span> http:\/\/www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com\/bookpromo\/<\/span><\/a> <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

smiles,
\n\ud83d\ude42 Lee
\nThe MEGA Coach<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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