{"id":3108,"date":"2012-02-08T00:00:32","date_gmt":"2012-02-08T05:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/?p=3108"},"modified":"2012-02-07T22:55:01","modified_gmt":"2012-02-08T03:55:01","slug":"3108","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2012\/02\/3108.html","title":{"rendered":"YOU Are Totally Responsible For Your Life!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2012\/02\/me_you.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3109\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2012\/02\/me_you-182x300.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"182\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>You are the source of your life.<br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> You are the source of your beliefs, values, actions and results.<br \/>\nYou are totally responsible for your life and choices.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"> Often, life presents itself differently than we would like&#8230;..things happen.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> This could be in your personal relationships, health, home, financial situation, career, etc.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> Life is full of changes and unexpected outcomes.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">Life, people and opportunities come in many shapes and sizes.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\">Yet always, life actually is supporting you for your highest growth or success.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> Your present attitude, perceptions, emotions or situation do not always reflect this truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">It requires a strong, honest and courageous person to not take things personally.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> It requires clarity, center and balance to observe the reality of truth in the moment.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> It requires a higher perspective to not be caught up in the drama.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">You can take responsibility for your life and for your choices and circumstances.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> Or you can complain, criticize or blame others because things are not the way you want.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\">When you point your finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">If a situation is challenging, or seems negative, complaining, blaming or hurting others only makes it worse.\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: #000080\">It does not change the source of the problem or create a solution.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">The best thing to do when in conflict is to stop, detach and let go.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> The first one to peace always wins.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">If there is a problem with someone in your life, the best thing you can do is to have a sincere, compassionate conversation with them and share your feelings and truth with the intention to clear up any misconceptions.<\/span><span style=\"color: #000080\">\u00a0 It is wise to meet face to face or at least on the phone.\u00a0 Do not use emails for relationship issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">At the core of every person is their natural, pure, good essence.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> Trust this reality, speak to this reality and always see their higher self.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"> Give peace a chance.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"> Be the first to create peace and others may just follow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\">smiles,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\">\ud83d\ude42 Lee<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000080\"><em>The Mega Coach<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/files\/2012\/02\/self-motivation.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3110\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/85\/2012\/02\/self-motivation-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are the source of your life. 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