{"id":165,"date":"2011-02-10T00:00:01","date_gmt":"2011-02-10T00:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/2011\/02\/being-responsible.html"},"modified":"2011-11-28T00:42:15","modified_gmt":"2011-11-28T05:42:15","slug":"being-responsible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2011\/02\/being-responsible.html","title":{"rendered":"Being Responsible"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">You are the source of your life.<br \/>\nYou are the source of your beliefs, values, actions and results.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">This also equates with the fact that you are totally responsible for your life and choices.\u00a0 Often, life presents itself differently than we would like&#8230;..things happen.<br \/>\nThis could be in your personal relationships, health, home, financial situation, career, etc.\u00a0 Life is full of changes and outcomes.\u00a0 It comes in many shapes and sizes.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">Yet always, life actually is supporting you for your highest growth or success.<br \/>\nYour present attitude, perceptions, emotions or situation do not always reflect this truth.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">It requires a strong, honest and courageous person to not take things personally.\u00a0 It requires clarity, center and balance to observe the reality of truth in the moment.\u00a0 It requires a higher perspective to not be caught up in the drama.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">You can take responsibility for your life and for your choices and circumstances.<br \/>\nOr you can complain, criticize or blame others because things are not the way you want.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">If a situation is challenging, or seems negative, complaining, blaming or hurting others only makes it worse.\u00a0 It does not change the source of the problem or create a solution.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">The best thing to do when in conflict is to stop, detach and let go.<br \/>\nThe first one to peace always wins.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">If there is a problem with someone in your life, the best thing you can do is to have a sincere, compassionate conversation with them and share your feelings and truth with the intention to clear up and misconceptions.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">At the core of every person is their natural, pure, good essence.<br \/>\nTrust this reality, speak to this reality and always see their higher self.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><span style=\"font-size: small\">Give peace a chance.<br \/>\nBe the first to create peace and others may just follow.<\/p>\n<p>smiles,<br \/>\n\ud83d\ude42 Lee<br \/>\n<em>The Mega Coach<\/em><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080\"><br \/>\n<strong><span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are the source of your life. 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