{"id":135,"date":"2010-12-29T00:00:01","date_gmt":"2010-12-29T00:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/haveamagnificentday\/2010\/12\/give-your-gentle-and-focused-attention.html"},"modified":"2010-12-29T00:00:01","modified_gmt":"2010-12-29T00:00:01","slug":"give-your-gentle-and-focused-attention","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/haveamagnificentday\/2010\/12\/give-your-gentle-and-focused-attention.html","title":{"rendered":"Give Your Gentle and Focused Attention"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font color=\"#000099\" size=\"3\" face=\"Verdana\"><span><br \/>W<\/span><\/font><font face=\"Verdana\"><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\"><span>hen you want to give something of real value to another, give your gentle and focused attention. <br \/>When you seek to develop true understanding, <\/span><\/font><font color=\"#000099\" size=\"3\"><span>listen with your heart<\/span><\/font><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\"><span>. <\/span><\/font><font color=\"navy\"><span><\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\"><span><br \/>You can build lasting relationships and intimacy and create great value by paying attention and being here. <br \/>When lecturing, pleading and arguing fail to carry your point across, giving your attention very likely will. <\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>Yes, it can be difficult to give your full attention in a fast-moving world that is filled with distractions. <br \/>And yet, the more distractions there are, the more precious and valuable your attention becomes. <\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>Give something to others that is one hundred percent you and go total.<br \/>Give the gift of your gentle and focused attention and do your best. <\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>There are people all around you who are yearning to be heard, seen, <\/span><\/font><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000099\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>acknowledged,&nbsp;recognized<\/span><\/font><font color=\"#000099\" face=\"Verdana\"><span> and<\/span><\/font><\/font><font color=\"navy\" face=\"Verdana\"><span><font size=\"3\"> loved. <br \/>By truly paying attention, you enrich your life as well as theirs. <\/font><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>By being present and living in the moment,<br \/>Active listening and true communication can be achieved and magic happens.<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>Even if you have nothing else to give, you can always give your focused attention. <br \/>It will be surely welcomed and treasured as it brings real light to the world. <\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"navy\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>And just maybe, you will feel God&#8217;s presence<\/span><\/font><font color=\"#000099\" face=\"Verdana\"><span><font size=\"3\"> and grace.<br \/>Miracles are possible, spread the word.<\/font><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"#000099\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>smiles,<br \/><\/span><\/font><font color=\"navy\" size=\"3\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>\ud83d\ude42 Lee<\/span><\/font><font color=\"#000099\" face=\"Verdana\"><span><br \/><font size=\"3\"><i><span>The Mega Coach<\/span><\/i><\/font><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"EmailStyle16\"><font color=\"purple\" size=\"2\" face=\"Verdana\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you want to give something of real value to another, give your gentle and focused attention. 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