{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Happy Haven with Brandi-Ann Uyemura","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/happyhaven","author_name":"Brandi-Ann Uyemura","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/happyhaven\/author\/buyemura\/","title":"Not Letting Labels Define You - Happy Haven with Brandi-Ann Uyemura","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"ANCscI5o0d\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/happyhaven\/2012\/04\/10\/not-letting-labels-define-you\/\">Not Letting Labels Define You<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/happyhaven\/2012\/04\/10\/not-letting-labels-define-you\/embed\/#?secret=ANCscI5o0d\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Not Letting Labels Define You&#8221; &#8212; Happy Haven with Brandi-Ann Uyemura\" data-secret=\"ANCscI5o0d\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"&#8220;You&#8217;re selfish.&#8221; &#8220;You&#8217;re lazy.&#8221; &#8220;You&#8217;re a dreamer.&#8221; These labels can define us. Whether they&#8217;re given when we&#8217;re kids or are carelessly said to us as growing adults, we often carry these words as if they were invisible tags around our necks, showing the world who who we are. The truth is words can empower or\u00a0dis-empower\u00a0us.&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/happyhaven\/files\/2012\/04\/Labels.jpg"}