{"id":1107,"date":"2014-04-01T01:56:53","date_gmt":"2014-04-01T01:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/gooddaysbaddays\/?p=1107"},"modified":"2014-03-31T19:06:35","modified_gmt":"2014-03-31T19:06:35","slug":"done-something-foolish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/gooddaysbaddays\/2014\/04\/done-something-foolish.html","title":{"rendered":"Done Something Foolish?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_792\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-792\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/gooddaysbaddays\/files\/2013\/08\/Squirrel-by-Tina-Phllips.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-792\" alt=\"Image courtesy of Tina Phillips\/FreeDigitalPhotos.net\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/350\/2013\/08\/Squirrel-by-Tina-Phllips-300x199.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-792\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image courtesy of Tina Phillips\/FreeDigitalPhotos.net<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In honor of April Fool&#8217;s Day, some thoughts about those foolish moments &#8211; better known as &#8220;Ooops!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve all had them. Those moments (or days, or months&#8230;) when we&#8217;ve\u00a0<em>known\u00a0<\/em>better, but still&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>We\u00a0<em>knew\u00a0<\/em>it would be better not to attend a social gathering, but did anyway and for days afterward, felt the effects of too much of a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>We\u00a0<em>knew\u00a0<\/em>it would be better to get the refill on a prescription before vacation, but didn&#8217;t and got stranded at an airport without our necessary meds.<\/p>\n<p>We<em> knew<\/em> that respite from flares meant the disease was still lurking, but acted as if it wasn&#8217;t, and, wham!, stirred up a recurrence&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yes, sometimes we don&#8217;t act in our best interest. Perhaps because of peer pressure, frustration over &#8220;I&#8217;ve had this [disease] for so long, I&#8217;m tired of it!&#8221;, or another reason. But, even as we might pay harsh consequences, we don&#8217;t have to think that we&#8217;ve caused a long-term, downward spiral.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t have to flog ourselves with guilt.<\/p>\n<p>We learn. We pick up the pieces. We move on, wiser and more resolved to do better next time.<\/p>\n<p>And, know what? We do! We\u00a0<em>do &#8220;do better&#8221;<\/em> next time (in most cases), and that&#8217;s probably the point of those foolish moments.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re human. We&#8217;ll stumble. We might even fall, foolishly. But we can learn. We&#8217;re never too old to learn. And, as the lessons sink in and we&#8217;re able to do better and get stronger, we&#8217;ll find reason for thankfulness. Yes, even for those foolish moments.<\/p>\n<p>Blssings for the day,<\/p>\n<p>Maureen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In honor of April Fool&#8217;s Day, some thoughts about those foolish moments &#8211; better known as &#8220;Ooops!&#8221; We&#8217;ve all had them. 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