{"id":47,"date":"2011-03-08T09:08:05","date_gmt":"2011-03-08T09:08:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/godscomic\/2011\/03\/ill-pray-for-you.html"},"modified":"2011-03-08T09:08:05","modified_gmt":"2011-03-08T09:08:05","slug":"ill-pray-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/godscomic\/2011\/03\/ill-pray-for-you.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I&#8217;ll pray for you&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman'\">There are many terms used in the Christian world<br \/>\nthat sound good but often times don&#8217;t actually mean what they say. I would like<br \/>\nto explore some of these but since these columns are limited to around 500<br \/>\nwords let me start with these two. The first one is a phrase every Christian<br \/>\nhas used so it makes for a good start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>1)&#8221;I&#8217;ll pray for you&#8221;. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>What a beautiful sentiment. I need prayer and so<br \/>\ndo you. We are supposed to pray for each other as well. The problem is, (I know<br \/>\nthis not from divine revelation but unfortunately personal experience) that we<br \/>\nas Christians often times get in the habit of using the term flippantly without<br \/>\nweighing the gravity of the sentiment. You say your going to pray for someone<br \/>\nyou had better mean it. Instead it can be flouted around like a handshake with<br \/>\na stranger or the equivalent of the secular\/retailer phrase &#8220;Have a nice day&#8221;.<br \/>\nThat phrase sounds friendly enough though does anyone ever honestly think they<br \/>\nmean it? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>The truth is for the most part the purveyor of<br \/>\nthe phrase not only could care less about your &#8220;day&#8221;, they&#8217;ll even spend most<br \/>\nof their lunch break whining to fellow employees what a pain in the butt we<br \/>\npatrons actually are. This habit ironically facilitates a nice day for them. <span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>I know personally that I have used the phrase<br \/>\n&#8220;I&#8217;ll pray for you&#8221; only to forget about it 2 minutes later and only recall I<br \/>\nsaid it a couple months later when I find out the person I was supposed to pray<br \/>\nfor died from some exotic disease. Now I not only feel guilty for not praying,<br \/>\nI start thinking I killed the guy!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>Another classic overused Christian phrase is,<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>2) &#8220;You shouldn&#8217;t be a stumbling block for<br \/>\nothers.&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>Sounds holy until we who have been around the<br \/>\nChristian sub-culture long enough realize that the stumbling block concept is<br \/>\noften code for &#8220;I&#8217;ll be watching you and if I ever see you behaving in a way <b>I<\/b> consider un-Christian I&#8217;ll judge you<br \/>\nin my heart. Since I am the arbiter of all things true and holy.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>If stumbling block means Christian behavior that<br \/>\ncauses someone else to sin then most of these stumbler-phobes could use it on<br \/>\nthemselves since they are <i>so<\/i><br \/>\nconcerned about the sins of fellow believers. Their obsession with demanding<br \/>\nthe stumble-causing Christian to cease and desist usually leads them not to<br \/>\nspiritual encouragement of a wayward brother but instead the SIN of<br \/>\nself-righteous judgment that doesn&#8217;t desire reconciliation as much as<br \/>\npunishment and condemnation! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>Their legalistic arrogance also ticks me off and<br \/>\ncauses <i>me<\/i> to sin since I find myself despising<br \/>\nthem and desiring ways to make their lives miserable which I have to assume is<br \/>\nnot a God breathed revelation but instead my own sin nature seeking revenge and<br \/>\npunishment. Then again using their &#8220;stumbler-logic&#8221; I can at least claim it<br \/>\nisn&#8217;t my fault but instead <i>theirs<\/i><br \/>\nsince it&#8217;s their sin that&#8217;s causing me to stumble!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:150%\"><span>Hey wait a minute, I kind of like this concept.<br \/>\nI can do wrong, blame it on their lack of Christian behavior and so I get to<br \/>\nhave my cake and eat it too! Maybe these Pharisees aren&#8217;t as dumb as I thought?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many terms used in the Christian world that sound good but often times don&#8217;t actually mean what they say. I would like to explore some of these but since these columns are limited to around 500 words let me start with these two. 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