{"id":808,"date":"2009-12-14T11:40:50","date_gmt":"2009-12-14T11:40:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/2009\/12\/a-guide-to-shutting-down-holiday-stress.html"},"modified":"2009-12-14T11:40:50","modified_gmt":"2009-12-14T11:40:50","slug":"a-guide-to-shutting-down-holiday-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2009\/12\/a-guide-to-shutting-down-holiday-stress.html","title":{"rendered":"A Guide to Shutting Down Holiday Stress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/coping-with-holiday-stress.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"coping-with-holiday-stress.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/84\/import\/assets_c\/2009\/12\/coping-with-holiday-stress-thumb-215x142-10094.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" height=\"142\" width=\"215\" \/><\/a><\/span>&#8216;Tis the season where &#8220;jingle all the way&#8221; can become &#8220;jangled nerves&#8221; in a flash&#8211;or the twinkle of a Christmas light, or the flicker of a Hanukkah candle, or&#8230;.oy, I&#8217;m exhausted already.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my general inventory of things that stress us out during the holidays (not necessarily in rank order):<\/p>\n<p>1.&nbsp; How to pay for everything<br \/>2.&nbsp; What to give as gifts<br \/>3.&nbsp; How to deal with your family<br \/>4.&nbsp; How to cope with loneliness<br \/>5.&nbsp; How to cope with depression or grief<br \/>6.&nbsp; What to cook or bake<br \/>7.&nbsp; How to hold onto a sense of meaning<\/p>\n<p>Need I go on?&nbsp; I didn&#8217;t think so.&nbsp; But breathe&#8230;.you didn&#8217;t think I&#8217;d get you all upset and then leave you to stew in your stress, did you?&nbsp; Please&#8211;that&#8217;s not the Fresh Living way!&nbsp; The elves all around Beliefnet have been busy creating features that will help you clear the stress-dust from your eyes so you can take in the beauty and joy that&#8217;s waiting for you this holiday season.&nbsp; So go ahead&#8211;click yourself stressless!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Love-Family\/2008\/12\/Christmas-Without-Cash.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">Christmas Without Cash<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Health\/Emotional-Health\/Stress\/Holiday-Stress-Busters.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">21 Holiday Stress Busters<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Holistic-Living\/2008\/12\/Inspirational-Gifts.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">Inspiring Gift Ideas<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Love-Family\/2008\/11\/Make-Peace-with-Your-Family.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">How to Make Peace with Your Family<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Health\/Health-Support\/Grief-and-Loss\/Meaningful-Remembrance-Ideas-for-Holiday-Grief.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">How to Remember a Loved One at the Holidays<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Love-Family\/Recipes\/Holiday-Baking.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">Bake Yourself a Happy Holiday<\/a><\/p>\n<p>(image via: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.life123.com\/holidays\/christmas\/holiday-stress\/coping-with-holiday-stress.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.life123.com\/<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;color: black;font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'\"><strong>Like what you see? <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/feedburner.google.com\/fb\/a\/mailverify?uri=FreshLiving&amp;amp;loc=en_US\"><font color=\"#023d89\"><strong>Click here to subscribe<\/strong><\/font><\/a><strong> and get Fresh Living in your in-box every day.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8216;Tis the season where &#8220;jingle all the way&#8221; can become &#8220;jangled nerves&#8221; in a flash&#8211;or the twinkle of a Christmas light, or the flicker of a Hanukkah candle, or&#8230;.oy, I&#8217;m exhausted already. 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