{"id":36,"date":"2009-09-11T08:32:11","date_gmt":"2009-09-11T08:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/2009\/09\/fresh-morning-finding-gentleness-in-the-storm-of-your-mind.html"},"modified":"2009-09-11T08:32:11","modified_gmt":"2009-09-11T08:32:11","slug":"fresh-morning-finding-gentleness-in-the-storm-of-your-mind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2009\/09\/fresh-morning-finding-gentleness-in-the-storm-of-your-mind.html","title":{"rendered":"Fresh Morning: Finding Gentleness in the Storm of Your Mind"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"sun1.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/84\/import\/sun1.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" height=\"50\" width=\"50\" \/><\/span> <\/p>\n<div>&#8220;It is never too late for any of us to look at our minds. We can always sit down and allow the space for anything to arise. Sometimes we have a shocking experience of ourselves. Often we get carried away. Without judging, without buying into likes and dislikes, we can always encourage ourselves to just be here again and again and again.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The painful thing is that when we buy into disapproval, we are practicing disapproval. When we buy into harshness, we are practicing harshness, The more we do it, the stronger these qualities become. How sad it is that we become so expert at causing harm to ourselves and others. The trick then is to practice gentleness and letting go. We can learn to meet whatever arises with curiosity and not make it such a big deal. Instead of struggling against the force of confusion, we could meet it and relax. When we do that, we gradually discover that clarity is always there, In the middle of the worst scenario of the worst person in the world, in the midst of all the heavy dialogue with ourselves, open space is always there.&#8221; &#8212; Pema Chodron, &#8220;When Things Fall Apart&#8221;<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;It is never too late for any of us to look at our minds. We can always sit down and allow the space for anything to arise. Sometimes we have a shocking experience of ourselves. Often we get carried away. 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