{"id":354,"date":"2009-04-23T14:40:20","date_gmt":"2009-04-23T14:40:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/2009\/04\/are-you-having-enough-fun.html"},"modified":"2009-04-23T14:40:20","modified_gmt":"2009-04-23T14:40:20","slug":"are-you-having-enough-fun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2009\/04\/are-you-having-enough-fun.html","title":{"rendered":"Are You Having Enough Fun?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mt-image-left\" height=\"291\" alt=\"trampolinewoman.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/84\/import\/trampolinewoman.jpg\" width=\"250\" \/>That&#8217;s what a couple of people have asked me lately. It&#8217;s a bad sign that my mind goes blank and I just blink,&nbsp;right? Um, fun? Ohhh, fuuun. And a friend just posted to Facebook: &#8220;X is tired of being so hard on herself. She would like to be responsible, organized, and still have fun. There hasn&#8217;t been nearly enough fun lately.&#8221; I am with her. And study after study and a new <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Play-Shapes-Brain-Imagination-Invigorates\/dp\/1583333339\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1240514341&amp;sr=8-1\">spate of books<\/a> have come out about the <a href=\"http:\/\/stress.about.com\/od\/funandgames\/qt\/play.htm\">healing power of play<\/a>, spontaneous downtime, real joy, flow. <\/p>\n<p>Presuming I&#8217;m not the only fun-stunted grown-up out there&#8211;it seems like fun is the first thing to go when people are stressed, especially about cash&#8211;I&#8217;ve made a list for you and me&nbsp;on how to have more fun. (Fun is obviously subjective, though&#8211;one woman&#8217;s puzzle is another woman&#8217;s nightmare&#8211;so these are just ideas to inspire.)<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><strong>50 Ways&nbsp;to Have More Fun<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1) Bounce on a trampoline<\/p>\n<p>2)&nbsp;Watch 30 Rock on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hulu.com\/30-rock\">Hulu.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>3) Make a list of music you&#8217;d love to hear live. Get&nbsp;tickets.<\/p>\n<p>4) Pull together your friends and\/or family for a jamboree&#8211;of homemade and real instruments<\/p>\n<p>5) Go dancing<\/p>\n<p>6) Book a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kayak.com\/dealssearch?dest=&amp;destid=&amp;type=F&amp;cat=*&amp;star=*&amp;ts=3%2F2009&amp;te=2%2F2010&amp;pz=15\">cheap flight <\/a><\/p>\n<p>7) Relax in a hammock<\/p>\n<p>8) Go swimming<\/p>\n<p>9) Check off a few items on your <a href=\"http:\/\/www.43things.com\/\">life list<\/a><\/p>\n<p>10) Make a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.43things.com\/\">life list<\/a><\/p>\n<p>11) Go to the zoo<\/p>\n<p>12) Find one un-fun thing you can NOT do and&nbsp;don&#8217;t do it<\/p>\n<p>13) Read a juicy novel<\/p>\n<p>14) Write a juicy novel<\/p>\n<p>15) Go bowling<\/p>\n<p>16) Do bumper cars<\/p>\n<p>17) Draw<\/p>\n<p>18) Fingerpaint<\/p>\n<p>19) Invent a new dessert. Share.<\/p>\n<p>20) Make a stuffed animal<\/p>\n<p>21) Create an altar<\/p>\n<p>22) Play ball&#8211;basket, base, tennis, dodge<\/p>\n<p>23) Run<\/p>\n<p>24) Take a froofy scented bath<\/p>\n<p>25)&nbsp;&nbsp;Get on a boat<\/p>\n<p>26) <a href=\"http:\/\/www.quakerfarm.com\/adoptgoat.html\">Adopt a goat<\/a><\/p>\n<p>27) <a href=\"http:\/\/farmsanctuary.org\/\">Visit a farm<\/a><\/p>\n<p>28) Take a guided tour<\/p>\n<p>29) Go to a museum you would never normally consider<\/p>\n<p>30) Walk a dog (borrow if you need to)<\/p>\n<p>31) Visit someone you love. Or invite them to visit you.<\/p>\n<p>32) Paint a mural<\/p>\n<p>33) Learn to stand on your head<\/p>\n<p>34) Cuddle<\/p>\n<p>35) Go for a picnic&#8211;on your living room floor if need be<\/p>\n<p>36) Visit <a href=\"http:\/\/cuteoverload.com\/\">Cuteoverload.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>37) Have a <a href=\"http:\/\/boards.thenest.com\/boards\/ShowPost.aspx?PostID=35672285\">progressive&nbsp;potluck&nbsp;<\/a>with your neighbors<\/p>\n<p>38) Make <a href=\"http:\/\/www.buzzle.com\/articles\/recipe-for-raw-chocolate-bars.html\">raw chocolate<\/a><\/p>\n<p>39) Ride a bike<\/p>\n<p>40) Play frisbee<\/p>\n<p>41) Have an afternoon tea party where everyone has to wear a hat<\/p>\n<p>42) Make your own ice cream sandwiches<\/p>\n<p>43) Make your own ice cream with an <a href=\"http:\/\/icecreamrevolution.com\/\">ice cream ball<\/a><\/p>\n<p>44) Hop on a train or a bus and go somewhere you&#8217;ve never been&#8211;within an hour of your home<\/p>\n<p>45) Go to a make-your-own-pottery place<\/p>\n<p>46) Buy a fruit or vegetable you&#8217;ve never had (like <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Buddha's_hand\">Buddha&#8217;s Hand<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>47) Have a <a href=\"http:\/\/tinychoices.com\/2008\/04\/12\/easy-peasy-tip-host-a-clothing-swap\/\">clothing swap<\/a> with friends<\/p>\n<p>48)&nbsp;&nbsp;Have a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.homeexchange.com\/\">house swap <\/a>with strangers<\/p>\n<p>49) Make a music mix. Groove.<\/p>\n<p>50) Have&nbsp;a poetry reading<\/p>\n<p><strong>What do you do for fun?<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That&#8217;s what a couple of people have asked me lately. It&#8217;s a bad sign that my mind goes blank and I just blink,&nbsp;right? Um, fun? Ohhh, fuuun. And a friend just posted to Facebook: &#8220;X is tired of being so hard on herself. She would like to be responsible, organized, and still have fun. 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