{"id":304,"date":"2009-04-13T05:00:32","date_gmt":"2009-04-13T05:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/2009\/04\/fresh-morning-recognzing-fear-and-offering-love.html"},"modified":"2009-04-13T05:00:32","modified_gmt":"2009-04-13T05:00:32","slug":"fresh-morning-recognzing-fear-and-offering-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2009\/04\/fresh-morning-recognzing-fear-and-offering-love.html","title":{"rendered":"Fresh Morning: Recognzing Fear and Offering Love"},"content":{"rendered":"

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This is a lovely quote about having compassion for people most in need of it: <\/p>\n

“What we do from joy expresses love; what we do from fear calls for love.” — Alan Cohen<\/p>\n

It’s so easy to forget that most of the crappy things humans do are from fear, and as such, are actually calls for love. That nasty comment-spewing person on your morning commute, they need love. The line-cutter at the grocery store–yep, needing the love. Maybe we don’t risk the black eye by reaching out in those moments, but we can always send a loving thought their way. And not from a place of smug superiority, but a place of, “Man, I know what that suffering must be like in there. I wish you well.” <\/p>\n

And when we lob harsh thoughts and unkind words at ourselves–those are perfect opportunities to set down the sword we may not have even known we were carrying and take a moment, and, say something like, “I love you, kid. You’re alright and everything’s going to be ok.” Then things can soften, open, and move us along. <\/p>\n

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