{"id":1063,"date":"2010-05-13T13:55:16","date_gmt":"2010-05-13T13:55:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/2010\/05\/birthdays-the-best-thing-about-facebook.html"},"modified":"2010-05-13T13:55:16","modified_gmt":"2010-05-13T13:55:16","slug":"birthdays-the-best-thing-about-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2010\/05\/birthdays-the-best-thing-about-facebook.html","title":{"rendered":"Birthdays: The Best Thing About Facebook"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/birthday-cake.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"birthday-cake.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/84\/import\/assets_c\/2010\/05\/birthday-cake-thumb-222x232-13597.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt\" height=\"232\" width=\"222\" \/><\/a><\/span>Folks, today is my birthday.&nbsp; Yippie!<\/p>\n<p>This morning, when I woke up and logged onto my email, I saw 33 new messages, all &#8220;happy birthday&#8221; notes on my Facebook wall.&nbsp; I know this is not an uncommon experience &#8211; it&#8217;s not my first Facebook birthday, but scrolling through them all, I couldn&#8217;t wipe the smile off my face.&nbsp; Which is a very nice problem to have on one&#8217;s birthday, no?<\/p>\n<p>There was a note from my very first friend remembering the celebration we had for my third birthday.&nbsp; Several from family members sending virtual hugs.&nbsp; A bunch from friends I haven&#8217;t talked to in ages.&nbsp; Smiles from colleagues past and present.<\/p>\n<p>I respond to each and every posting, and the exercise of doing so has me thinking that Facebook, for all its issues, really has birthdays right.&nbsp; The process of scrolling down and writing different versions of &#8220;thank you&#8221; 30, 40 times, quickly answering the &#8220;how ya been?&#8221; inquiries, laughing over some shared memory, feeling flattered that someone you didn&#8217;t think cared took even a moment to wish you a happy&#8211;is so restorative, so much fun, and left me with such a sense of contentment and support.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Have you had the same experience of enjoying a Facebook birthday?&nbsp; Are you grateful, as I am, for the chance to say &#8220;thank you&#8221; to so many people on such an auspicious day as the anniversary of the day you entered the world?&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>(image via: <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.edweek.org\/edweek\/eduwonkette\/skoolboy\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/blogs.edweek.org\/<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Like what you see? <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/feedburner.google.com\/fb\/a\/mailverify?uri=FreshLiving&amp;amp;loc=en_US\"><font color=\"#023d89\"><strong>Click here to subscribe<\/strong><\/font><\/a><strong><br \/>\nand get Fresh Living in your in-box every day.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Folks, today is my birthday.&nbsp; Yippie! 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