{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Fresh Living","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving","author_name":"vreiss","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/author\/vreiss","title":"'You're Perfect, Now Change' - Fresh Living","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"3Nk77ycXg5\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2009\/11\/youre-perfect-now-change.html\">&#8216;You&#8217;re Perfect, Now Change&#8217;<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/freshliving\/2009\/11\/youre-perfect-now-change.html\/embed#?secret=3Nk77ycXg5\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;&#8216;You&#8217;re Perfect, Now Change&#8217;&#8221; &#8212; Fresh Living\" data-secret=\"3Nk77ycXg5\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"&#8220;The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.&#8221; &#8211; Thomas Merton Yes, yes, yes! Love.&nbsp;Totally agree.&nbsp;Though I wish instead of &#8220;twist&#8221; he had said &#8220;bend.&#8221; And that first&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/freshliving\/files\/import\/heartblue.jpg"}