{"id":1404,"date":"2014-11-16T13:30:55","date_gmt":"2014-11-16T18:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/flowermandalas\/?p=1404"},"modified":"2014-11-22T23:47:01","modified_gmt":"2014-11-23T04:47:01","slug":"the-transformative-power-of-misfortune-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/flowermandalas\/2014\/11\/the-transformative-power-of-misfortune-4.html","title":{"rendered":"The Transformative Power of Misfortune (4)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Another post from a reader:\u00a0A Journey of a Lifetime<\/b><\/h2>\n

Being stranded at the bus stop in Rosendale more than 5,000 miles from home and a random act of kindness has led to an unbelievable journey for a SUNY Ulster student from the Republic of Azerbaijan.<\/span><\/p>\n

When\u00a0Gulnar Babayeva<\/b>\u00a0arrived in the Hudson Valley in 2008 off a Trailways bus from New York\u2019s Port Authority with a large bag on wheels and directions on how to get to High Falls she never expected that she would attend college here and pursue her dreams of an art career.<\/span><\/p>\n

But when her ride didn\u2019t show to pick her up to take her to a summer job arranged for her at Camp Huntington, a special needs camp in High Falls, a chance encounter with a local stranger changed her destiny.<\/span><\/p>\n

As she stood by a construction zone near the Route 32 Bridge in Rosendale and considered walking to her new job that was still miles away,\u00a0Jo Shuman<\/b>, a local judge\u2019s wife and registered nurse, stopped to see if she was in trouble and needed help, thinking she could be a runaway American teenage girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

After travelling for more than 17 hours and at first misunderstanding that the ride was the one arranged through camp, she accepted the ride from Shuman, RN.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI had to take the risk,\u201d Gulnar says.<\/span><\/p>\n

A friendship was forged with Rosendale Town JudgeRobert N. Vosper<\/b>\u00a0and Jo with phone calls, weekend visits for dinner, emails and contacts via social media through the next summer when Gulnar returned to work at the camp again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIt took a lot of courage for her to do what she did,\u201d says Vosper, who saw the friendship with Gulnar as an opportunity to show the young woman what American family life was really like.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pursuit of the Arts<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

After getting a taste of the arts for the first time at camp and loving it, the Vosper- Shuman family encouraged her to study art at the nearby community college and offered to host her, offers of generosity and kindness that Gulnar says she is eternally grateful for.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWithout Bob and Jo\u2019s support I would not be here right now,\u201d she says.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar had also earned a bachelor\u2019s degree in American Studies from the Azerbaijan University of Languages in 2009, which she attended on a scholarship before coming to the U.S. She had considered pursuing a master\u2019s degree in the UK and had been accepted to two colleges there. But her exposure to the arts at camp and the Vosper-Shuman family changed her direction. \u201cI feel like I won the lottery,\u201d she says of the opportunities that brought her to live and study in the Hudson Valley. \u201cI believe I\u2019m just lucky. I never thought I would end up here.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar pursued two degrees at SUNY Ulster, earning her A.A. in Fine Arts: Visual Arts degree, in Fall 2011. She also decided to pursue a graphic arts degree to have marketable skills in an in-demand field and will complete her A.S. in Advertising Design and Graphic Technologies next semester.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar earned a near perfect 3.9 grade-point average all while working two jobs and an internship on campus and being active on campus and in the community, with an abundance of natural energy and enthusiasm.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cGulnar is an excellent student,\u201d says her professor,Iain Machell<\/b>, Professor and Chair, Dept. of Art, Design, Music, Theatre & Communication at SUNY Ulster. \u201cShe willingly gets involved in leading any projects that interest her, with a strong passion for her studies and her fellow students at SUNY Ulster and the immediate community. I can\u2019t think of any student who has got more from the opportunities we offer at SUNY Ulster.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

For her achievements, she has received the\u00a02012 SUNY Chancellor\u2019s Award for \u201cOutstanding Academic Achievement and Contributions to the University Community\u201d<\/b>\u00a0as well as\u00a0SUNY Ulster President\u2019s Awards for Excellence in Student Leadership<\/b>\u00a0in 2012 and\u00a0Student Initiative<\/b>\u00a0in 2011.<\/span><\/p>\n

To earn her way through college, Gulnar worked in SUNY Ulster\u2019s Admissions office and at the Muroff Kotler Visual Arts Gallery and is currently an intern in Printing and Graphic Services on campus.<\/span><\/p>\n

She also has been the art director and designer for SUNY Ulster\u2019s\u00a0Slate<\/b>, Art and Literature magazine;Visual Arts Club President<\/b>\u00a0for almost two years;Student Admissions Ambassador<\/b>;\u00a0SUNY Ulster Mentor Success [SUMS]<\/b>\u00a0program participant (mentee); and a member of the\u00a0Phi Theta Kappa Honors Society<\/b>, who maintained her place on thePresident\u2019s List<\/b>\u00a0during her studies. Gulnar also has volunteered at\u00a0Rosendale Theatre<\/b>,\u00a0Redwing Blackbird Theater<\/b>\u00a0in Rosendale and\u00a0Rosendale Recreation Center<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cShe\u2019s optimistic, energetic and eager to learn,\u201d says\u00a0Bob Johnson<\/b>, Director of Printing & Graphics, who supervises her internship. \u201cHer self-motivation is inspirational.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar said her internship working on real-world projects has been an incredible opportunity where every day she learns something new.<\/span><\/p>\n

American Life<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

In the past few years, she has had the opportunity to travel the U.S., including Albany, Washington, D.C., Los Angeles and San Francisco, and met more friends than she says she ever imagined having in Azerbaijan.<\/span><\/p>\n

She feels fortunate to have found her way to an area where artists like herself gather and has fallen in love with the Hudson Valley that is vastly different from her home country located at the crossroads of Western Asia and Eastern Europe bordered by the Caspian Sea and Russia, Turkey and Iran.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThe quality of the education here is much better,\u201d says Gulnar. \u201cI never got to experience what I was learning. I only read books and studied. At SUNY Ulster, they let me think, analyze and create on my own.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar has truly found a second home on the close-knit SUNY Ulster campus with her professors, and other faculty members and staff who support her and are readily available to answer any questions and help without hesitation. Working on campus also has provided her with flexibility for her studies.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI love the people here,\u201d she says. \u201cI made the majority of my friends at SUNY Ulster, and I feel like SUNY Ulster is like my third family after my American and biological families.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Bob and Jo consider Gulnar the daughter they never had after raising four boys of their own. \u201cIf I had a daughter, I would hope to raise one as strong and self-assured as Gulnar who knows what she wants,\u201d Vosper says. \u201cShe is an example for other young women.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

And although her real family is across the globe, Gulnar stays connected through Skype with her parents and two sisters, and seeing their faces on the Internet regularly makes them feel close.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar also blogs<\/b><\/a>\u00a0for SUNY Ulster and for InternationalStudent.com<\/b><\/a>, where she shares her experiences in the U.S. as a foreign student with other students around the world, and hopes to inspire students to study abroad and experience the best outside of their home country.<\/span><\/p>\n

The next step on her journey is pursuing a bachelor\u2019s and eventually a master\u2019s in art, and practicing art either in traditional or in digital media as a full-time professional artist\/designer.<\/span><\/p>\n

If she had stayed in her own country, she says she would likely now be working in an office job with minimum wage pay. \u201cThat\u2019s not the future I envisioned \u2013 it\u2019s not bright enough for me,\u201d she says. And while she worries about the cost of college, she\u2019s confident she\u2019ll find a way to meet her goals. \u201cI have hope,\u201d Gulnar says.<\/span><\/p>\n

These days, Gulnar is still accepting rides but now they are from her newfound friends in the U.S. if they see her waiting for the bus to get to campus, and there\u2019s no turning back from her dreams and academic aspirations for this student on the move.<\/span><\/p>\n

Epilogue:<\/span><\/p>\n

Gulnar got a job as a graphic artist upon graduating and has been promoted several times! She became engaged to another student fro UCCC and they married after graduation!<\/span><\/p>\n

She is thriving! You can visit her website \u00a0and Facebook page to continue to follow this amazing woman’s journey to artistic freedom!!<\/span><\/p>\n

Submitted by Jo Shuman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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David<\/p>\n

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