. “I
\nvacillate and ponder and struggle every day with my spirituality.” Sharing that
\nshe is a convert to Catholicism who attends mass regularly she continues, “I
\nchange my beliefs like my underwear. I told the priest that I would be the
\nworst Catholic he ever had and I didn’t lie. I took an online test – perhaps on
\nBeliefnet – and Catholicism came it at 23rd for me. 23rd! I know you’re hoping
\nfor this to be an open ‘safe’ sanctuary for people to exchange their spiritual
\nmusings so I’ll check in daily and spread the word not THE WORD because I don’t
\nknow where I stand on that yet…”<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\nA few hours later Julya chimed in…<\/span><\/p>\n“I, more so than Andrea, am so far from ‘mainstream faith’,
\nbut Sociology does suggest that a culture needs something like a family and
\nsomething like a religion,” she said. “Its a nice sentiment to view your
\nsuggestion of locking arms and wandering together. Thanks for being inclusive
\nto those who are not necessarily reformed, or born again. People who hold
\nbeliefs differing from yours. That’s dialogue. As for the topic at hand-Lent. I
\nhave to say I never understood just giving something up. What’s the point? Why
\nnot take it to the next level-which makes more of an impact upon humanity-and give
\nit to someone who needs it, never had it, or could use it!”<\/span><\/p>\nThen Gigi wrote, “I was raised in the church, my mother made
\nus go every Sunday. I am not sure when I stopped going (maybe 14 yrs old) but I
\ndo remember how important it was for me to find a church when we decided to
\nhave a child. I have never participated in Lent. I could say it’s because I
\nnever finish what I start, I could say it’s something that I don’t understand.
\nInstead I’ll admit the truth. I struggle everyday with being a child of God.
\nNot because I don’t believe, because I do. It’s because I don’t always feel
\nworthy and I also feel like I would be doing it for all the wrong reasons.”<\/span><\/p>\nThese are my kind of people asking my kinds of questions!\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\nWe’ll unpack more about Lent as we move toward Holy Week, but
\nthese fantastic comments (and many more in response to my first two posts) left
\nme thinking that we should spend some more time getting to know each other and
\nwhere we’re coming from in terms of our relationship with God, religion, the
\nchurch. So tell me – what’s your story?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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