{"id":252,"date":"2010-02-22T14:19:19","date_gmt":"2010-02-22T14:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/flirtingwithfaith\/2010\/02\/i-dont-know-much-about.html"},"modified":"2010-02-22T14:19:19","modified_gmt":"2010-02-22T14:19:19","slug":"i-dont-know-much-about","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/flirtingwithfaith\/2010\/02\/i-dont-know-much-about.html","title":{"rendered":"Poetry, Facebook and Wondering What it Means to Live a Little&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, hirakakupro-w3, osaka, 'ms pgothic', sans-serif;line-height: normal\"><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><i><br \/><\/i><\/span><\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><i>If you have never denied your want,<\/i><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><i>how do you know how hunger feels?<\/i><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><i>If you have never given up,<\/i><\/span><i><br \/><\/i><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><i>how do you learn to receive?<\/i><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;font-style: italic;line-height: 20px\">If you have never sat with emptiness,<\/span><br \/><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;font-style: italic;line-height: 20px\">out of what do you fashion your hope?<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"webkit-indent-blockquote\"><p><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><i><br \/><\/i><\/span><\/font><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">These are just a few of the beautifully constructed and thought-provoking questions that comprise a poem called&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/ow.ly\/1a06L\">Passing Time in Lent<\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-style: italic\">&nbsp;<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-style: normal\">composed by writer, editor, art collector, small business owner <a href=\"http:\/\/shereadsshewrites.ning.com\/profile\/MaureenEDoallas?xg_source=activity\">Ma<\/a><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-style: normal\"><a href=\"http:\/\/shereadsshewrites.ning.com\/profile\/MaureenEDoallas?xg_source=activity\">ureen Doallas<\/a> and available to be read (and savored) in full on her blog<span class=\"Apple-style-span\">&nbsp;<span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><a href=\"http:\/\/writingwithoutpaper.blogspot.com\/\">Writing Without Paper<\/a>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">While I appreciate Maureen&#8217;s words and the images they conjure, I have to admit that poetry challenges me.&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">Like oysters or goose liver pate, I find the <i>notion <\/i>of poetry more compelling than the poetry itself. Lapping up&nbsp;verses like an awkward Labrador puppy, my immature palate is easily frustrated by the search for an elusive hook or theme that may or may not exist in words that are meant to be enjoyed for their melody as much as their content.&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">Of course I prefer to blame poetry for the disconnect.&nbsp;Better to insult the form than to explore a possible shortcoming in my approa<br \/>\nch it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">(Un)fortunately, poetry has been haunting me lately. Poking its head around online corners and whispering my name with the voices of new acquaintances and old friends. My 19 year old daughter Kelsey, a <a href=\"www.myspace.com\/kelseyballand\">prolific singer, songwriter and lyricist<\/a> dared me to consider the poet within (and how my unintentional creative legalism might be stifling her) when when she posted a status update on my Facebook wall last week.&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">&#8220;<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;line-height: normal;font-style: italic\">Your facebook is way too grammatically correct,&#8221; she wrote. &nbsp;&#8220;Live a little. Write in fragments.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">Think in questions.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\">Write in fragments.&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\">Live a little.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\">Looking forward to seeing where this is taking me. Would love to hear your thoughts&#8230;<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=\"Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 20px\"><br \/><\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Trebuchet, 'Trebuchet MS', Arial, sans-serif;line-height: 20px\"><br \/>&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you have never denied your want, how do you know how hunger feels? If you have never given up,how do you learn to receive? If you have never sat with emptiness,out of what do you fashion your hope? 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