{"id":5796,"date":"2016-01-07T20:01:09","date_gmt":"2016-01-07T20:01:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/fellowshipofsaintsandsinners\/?p=5796"},"modified":"2018-07-17T18:50:47","modified_gmt":"2018-07-17T18:50:47","slug":"the-year-of-the-crockpot-and-the-hairy-armpits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/fellowshipofsaintsandsinners\/2016\/01\/the-year-of-the-crockpot-and-the-hairy-armpits.html","title":{"rendered":"The Year of the Crockpot and the Hairy Armpits"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy New Year! Over the years I&#8217;ve stopped making ambitious resolutions at this time of the year, since I manage to break most of them by the second week of January &#8230; but I am resolving to up my presence at this intersection despite the limitations of this way-too-wacky year of single (substitute &#8220;desperate and hanging by a thread&#8221; here) parenting while my husband finishes up a nine-month, NEH research fellowship in DC. I&#8217;ve dubbed it &#8220;The Year of the Crockpot and the Hairy Armpits.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The fact that these days I rarely have time to shave my armpits is also not a good enough excuse for being a recluse of late \u2014 now that my second book, <em>The Recovery-Minded Church: Loving and Ministering to People with Addiction<\/em>, by Jonathan Benz with Kristina Robb-Dover (InterVarsity Press) is hot off the press and available on Amazon. (Right now IVP is offering a 20%-off <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ivpress.com\/cgi-ivpress\/book.pl\/code=4125\">sale<\/a> at their site.)<\/p>\n<p><em>A really cool tidbit that I never knew until now:<\/em> if your book generates at least 20 positive reviews on Amazon, Amazon starts to market your book for you at no charge. Since my full-time PR agent is currently occupied with JK Rawlings&#8217; latest bestseller, I figured I&#8217;d try this strategy out. (Kidding, about the PR agent.)<\/p>\n<p>But there&#8217;s another reason why I&#8217;m back at this intersection between God and life. It&#8217;s because I&#8217;ve genuinely missed you and because I&#8217;m really excited about the next two blog series we&#8217;ll be undertaking, themed around recovery:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>&#8220;The 12 Steps for Restless Souls&#8221; \u2014<\/strong> If you&#8217;ve been around here long enough, you&#8217;ve probably noticed I&#8217;m writing for &#8220;restless souls&#8221; who &#8220;still haven&#8217;t found what they&#8217;re looking for,&#8221; to quote Bono, and they&#8217;re both in the church and out. As I described in first introducing this blog, they&#8217;re those of us &#8220;for whom an experience of &#8216;church&#8217; has left us wanting and searching for more. \u00a0More depth. \u00a0More honesty. \u00a0More trust and authenticity. \u00a0More grappling with real questions. \u00a0Without the judgment. \u00a0More room for the grays.&#8221; How does 12-step recovery speak to our spiritual restlessness? What might the lessons from a world that, for many of us, may at first seem restricted to a mysteriously anonymous niche of chain-smoking addicts with a gift for jittery, confessional gab about their darkest secrets and a love for bottomless black coffee in styrofoam cups, teach us in our quest for &#8220;the More&#8221;? Or<em> can<\/em> it teach us anything?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>&#8220;The Recovery-Minded Church&#8221;<\/strong> \u2014 The series that follows takes its name from the book (fancy that) and will feature churches around the country that in various ways are seeking to become more &#8220;recovery-minded.&#8221; What does it mean to be &#8220;recovery-minded&#8221;? That&#8217;s a question we&#8217;ll unpack more with some practical examples from churches that are on the front lines of this transformation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy New Year! 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