{"id":4989,"date":"2014-03-10T10:30:16","date_gmt":"2014-03-10T10:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/fellowshipofsaintsandsinners\/?p=4989"},"modified":"2018-07-20T17:51:27","modified_gmt":"2018-07-20T17:51:27","slug":"two-young-brothers-redefine-what-it-means-to-win","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/fellowshipofsaintsandsinners\/2014\/03\/two-young-brothers-redefine-what-it-means-to-win.html","title":{"rendered":"Two Young Brothers Redefine What It Means To Win"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Phew. I&#8217;m coming up to breathe after submersion in training modules and orientation for a new job. I&#8217;ll be working part-time as a hospice chaplain\u2014more reflections to come on this experience no doubt. I miss you and hope to be back a bit more regularly soon at this intersection between God and life.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, this short inspirational story originally published in <a href=\"http:\/\/sftimes.co\/?id=20\"><em>The San Francisco Times<\/em><\/a> about two brothers who have bonded over racing triathlons and are <em>Sports Illustrated<\/em> &#8220;Sports Kids of the Year&#8221; is worth a view. It comes in the context of my own efforts to teach my son\u2014after a hard-fought championship game on the basketball court lost in the final seconds of overtime\u2014about what it means to lose gracefully. In the wake of a second place finish in a speech contest, <a href=\"http:\/\/malalafund.org\/\">Malala<\/a> in her book recounts the words of Abe Lincoln to his son&#8217;s teacher: &#8220;Teach him to lose gracefully,&#8221; Lincoln instructed. 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