{"id":958,"date":"2012-06-27T05:14:00","date_gmt":"2012-06-27T10:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/fearofwhales\/?p=958"},"modified":"2012-06-22T07:50:55","modified_gmt":"2012-06-22T12:50:55","slug":"gender-identity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/fearofwhales\/2012\/06\/gender-identity.html","title":{"rendered":"Pedantic Word Choices"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ryangaffney.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/pint.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: inline; float: right\" title=\"pint\" alt=\"\" align=\"right\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ryangaffney.com\/wordpress\/2011\/06\/pint-300x234.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"234\" \/><\/a>There is an old hustler bet where you offer a sum of money (say $50) to somebody in a bar if they can drink an entire pint in a minute. An experienced drinker can often polish off a pint in well under that, at which point you can take their money because they did not finish it in exactly a minute, they finished it in less, so they lose.<\/p>\n<p>We in the Christian community often do the same sort of thing. We will insist there is a moral difference between <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/fearofwhales\/2012\/04\/thou-shalt-not-kill.html\">Murder and Killing People<\/a> despite the fact that there is nothing about the Hebrew Language to indicate that. We&#8217;ll say we don&#8217;t like <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/fearofwhales\/2010\/10\/on-dating.html\">Dating<\/a> but instead we&#8217;ll support &quot;courting&quot; we will insist that it&#8217;s wrong to <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/fearofwhales\/2011\/06\/on-lying.html\">Lie<\/a> but we&#8217;ll say stuff that is deceptive or misleading as if that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>We are like the expert in the law in Luke 10. We know that we should love our neighbor, but we pretend not to know what the word &quot;neighbor&quot; means<\/p>\n<p>I could write articles about every one of these inconsistencies I see. But frankly I&#8217;m just not that starved for topics. At the end of the day the root problem is simply this: It is very easy to follow the bible so long as you are prepared to reinterpret all of the words in the bible to mean whatever you need them to.<\/p>\n<p>So if you believe there is a difference between &quot;teaching&quot; and &quot;preaching&quot; between &quot;submitting&quot; and &quot;obeying&quot; between &quot;drinking&quot; and &quot;drunkenness&quot; between &quot;judging&quot; and &quot;judgement&quot; and between &quot;gossip&quot; and &quot;talking about someone behind their back&quot; then I have to ask you a question:<\/p>\n<p>What then is the difference between believing the &quot;bible&quot; and just believing &quot;whatever you want&quot;?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is an old hustler bet where you offer a sum of money (say $50) to somebody in a bar if they can drink an entire pint in a minute. 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