{"id":706,"date":"2012-01-16T08:24:59","date_gmt":"2012-01-16T13:24:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayspirituality\/?p=706"},"modified":"2016-10-19T07:57:20","modified_gmt":"2016-10-19T11:57:20","slug":"cant-relate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayspirituality\/2012\/01\/cant-relate.html","title":{"rendered":"Can&#8217;t Relate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I read Amy Grant&#8217;s book, <em>Mosaics.<\/em> She eloquently explains how thankful she is for God, her singing talent, and all the people who made her so successful in life. Grant&#8217;s life had its ups and downs but she forcibly reminds the reader how important it is to use what God has given us to be happy and help others.<\/p>\n<p>Right!<\/p>\n<p>Unlike Ms. Grant, who apparently can whip out a song lyric while driving the car, I sing terrible. In fact, I don&#8217;t have one talent that comes easy. I&#8217;m not afraid to learn, but it is a torturous workout. It will take me over an hour to write this short blog and then I&#8217;ll probably edit it tomorrow because it doesn&#8217;t make a lick of sense later today.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing against Amy Grant, in fact, I recommend reading her book, <em>Mosaics. <\/em>Grant&#8217;s thoughts are worth hearing. And, although I can&#8217;t relate to a person who was born talented and able to make a hefty income while being surrounded by a host of supporters (and a nanny for her children), but I can indirectly relate to the love of God and family, enough to get something meaningful out of <em>Mosaics.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I am reminded that although everyone has obstacles in their life, some people have HUGE obstacles to overcome. I can relate to the obstacle of not being innately talented at something. As a former <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayspirituality\/2011\/09\/deciding-to-foster-children.html\">foster parent<\/a>, I can also relate to the gargantuan obstacle of self-destructive behavior. Many of the foster children&#8217;s parents were extremely talented at self-destructive behavior. So, it isn&#8217;t as simple as telling people to be thankful to God and help others.<\/p>\n<p>I can relate to the importance of removing obstacles, rather than place obstacles in the eye of the public.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Build up, build up, prepare the road! Remove the obstacles out of the way of my people.&#8221; (Isa. 57:14, NIV)<\/p>\n<p>With the foster children, I removed the obstacle of a terrible family, by not allowing them to speak badly about their absent parents and by showing them they can feel the Parent of <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayspirituality\/2011\/12\/what-is-god.html\">God<\/a>, who will always be with them to guide and heal. They responded beautifully. Children are pretty great.<\/p>\n<p>Come to think of it: I revised <a href=\"http:\/\/healingsciencetoday.wordpress.com\/2009\/12\/29\/introduction-to-21st-century-science-and-health\/\"><em>Science and Health<\/em><\/a> to remove the obstacles of gender-exclusive language, out-dated examples, and outgrown medical references. From <em>Science and Health, <\/em>&#8220;Apart from the usual opposition to everything new, the one great obstacle to receiving spirituality through which the understanding of Mind-science comes, is the inadequacy of terminology for metaphysical statements.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I read Amy Grant&#8217;s book, Mosaics. She eloquently explains how thankful she is for God, her singing talent, and all the people who made her so successful in life. 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