{"id":1125,"date":"2014-07-22T19:00:48","date_gmt":"2014-07-22T19:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayinspiration\/?p=1125"},"modified":"2015-12-02T22:20:38","modified_gmt":"2015-12-02T22:20:38","slug":"8-ways-to-make-your-relationship-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayinspiration\/2014\/07\/8-ways-to-make-your-relationship-better.html","title":{"rendered":"8 Ways to Make Your Relationship Better"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/355\/2014\/07\/improve-relationship.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1126\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/355\/2014\/07\/improve-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"improve relationship\" width=\"578\" height=\"295\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.\u201d &#8211; <strong>Sam Keen <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>While it\u2019s impossible to have a perfect relationship, you can have a better, more fulfilling relationship when you and your partner use some simple tools.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Use these tools during life\u2019s storms<\/strong> \u2013 and during the times when you think your relationship is at the breaking point \u2013 <strong>so you can repair the foundation and restore your commitment to each other once again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. Always take the time to thank your partner for the things they do. Everyone wants to be appreciated for their effort.<\/p>\n<p>2. Schedule a date night, away from friends, family and children and always keep it. Time together without interference is necessary to maintain a strong bond.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>3. Ask yourself each day what you can do to make your partner&#8217;s burden lighter. Commit to impacting their challenges and making their life easier.<\/p>\n<p>4. Say &#8220;I love you&#8221; frequently. Offer affection without strings attached and do not tie your endearments to chores or money.<\/p>\n<p>5. Love yourself so you can love others. Take care of yourself and your body. If you don&#8217;t take the time to take care of yourself, why should someone else?<\/p>\n<p>6. Surprise your partner. Commit to doing something they want to do without a quid pro quo. Do things sometimes just to make your partner happy.<\/p>\n<p>7. Tell your partner they make you happy. Nothing is more encouraging in a relationship that the knowledge you are meeting the needs of your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>8. Write love notes and leave them where the other can find them. This is romantic and re-engages partners to verbalize the things they appreciate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Image Source:<\/strong> Google Images<\/p>\n<p><strong>About <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayinspiration\/author\/cblackwell\" target=\"_blank\">Alex Blackwell<\/a><\/strong><br \/>\nAlex Blackwell is a father, husband and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thebridgemaker.com\">writer<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.\u201d &#8211; Sam Keen While it\u2019s impossible to have a perfect relationship, you can have a better, more fulfilling relationship when you and your partner use some simple tools. 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