{"id":75,"date":"2009-07-07T22:43:04","date_gmt":"2009-07-07T22:43:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/07\/a-dignified-opinion.html"},"modified":"2009-07-07T22:43:04","modified_gmt":"2009-07-07T22:43:04","slug":"a-dignified-opinion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayethics\/2009\/07\/a-dignified-opinion.html","title":{"rendered":"A Dignified Opinion"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Last night I wrote a post
\nrelaying my discomfort and chagrin at what I considered to be an unethical gut
\nreaction to the homage paid to Michael Jackson after his death. A few days earlier, Hillary referenced an
\narticle asking if morality came from the heart or the head. Yesterday, the New
\nYork Times published a column by David Brooks called “In Search of Dignity<\/a>“.<\/span><\/p>\n

In a way, this column is the
\nother side of the ‘head or heart’ story; it preaches what Brooks calls the
\n‘dignity code’.<\/span> <\/p>\n

Every year, the concept of
\ndignity suffers a bit more – ‘dignified’ seems to become more and more
\nsynonymous with ‘stuffed shirt’. But mixed with equal parts compassion,
\nbringing back dignity could find us a new, more ethical path.<\/span>
<\/span><\/p>\n

The column is a call to
\npoliticians, along with the general populace, to show a little dignity. By
\nshowing that oft-forgotten quality, Brooks also believes we will behave more ethically.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, is this true? Is leading a dignified life a precursor to leading an ethical life? <\/span>
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Obviously that’s not always the case. To state an extreme, a dignified, genocidal dictator is still, at the end of the day, an unethical, genocidal dictator.<\/span><\/p>\n

Still, I buy into this. Besides simply desiring<\/i> a bit more dignity out of society (Brooks uses the oh so timely examples of Jackson, Palin and Sanford), there’s also a fairly direct path from dignified behavior to ethical behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n

According to Brooks, the dignity code of the past required the following:<\/span><\/p>\n

The dignity code commanded its followers to be disinterested — to endeavor to
put national interests above personal interests. It commanded its followers to be reticent — to never degrade intimate emotions by parading them in public. It also commanded its followers to be dispassionate — to distrust rashness, zealotry, fury and political enthusiasm.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Disinterest, reticence, dispassion, distrust – okay, at first these rules of conduct sound a tad negative. But taken both in moderation and as Brooks describes, they lead to respect — for ourselves as well as for others – and respect most often leads to moral and ethical behavior. Simplified but true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Disinterest doesn’t mean lack of interest, it means putting aside self-interest to discover what’s in the interest of the many – step one in my copy of “Ethical Behavior 101”. Dispassionate? Well, as lovely as passion is (in every sense) it tends to get in the way of reason.<\/span><\/p>\n

Personally, the section of this code that strikes a chord is “never degrade intimate emotions by parading them in public.” Does this mean always maintaining a stoic facade and never betraying emotion? No! But goodness, people, sometimes our deepest emotions deserve a little privacy! (Ahem<\/i>, Michael Jackson’s memorial).<\/span><\/p>\n

Does this column strike such a chord with you? Would you like to see a massive return to dignity?<\/span><\/p>\n

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