{"id":197,"date":"2009-10-02T11:20:26","date_gmt":"2009-10-02T11:20:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/10\/david-letterman-hero-or-creep.html"},"modified":"2009-10-02T11:20:26","modified_gmt":"2009-10-02T11:20:26","slug":"david-letterman-hero-or-creep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayethics\/2009\/10\/david-letterman-hero-or-creep.html","title":{"rendered":"David Letterman: Hero Or Creep?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By now you&#8217;ve probably heard: David Letterman&#8217;s been the victim of a blackmail attempt to <a href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/Entertainment\/david-letterman-admits-sexual-affairs-staffers-details-extortion\/story?id=8728424\">extort $ 2 million<\/a> to keep quiet about sexual affairs he had with female staffers. Instead, Letterman chose to go on the air and, well, air his dirty laundry before the blackmailer could.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Watch a clip here:&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><object id=\"flashObj\" width=\"486\" height=\"412\" classid=\"clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=9,0,47,0\"><param name=\"movie\" value=\"http:\/\/c.brightcove.com\/services\/viewer\/federated_f9\/6555681001?isVid=1&amp;publisherID=769341148\" \/><param name=\"bgcolor\" value=\"#FFFFFF\" \/><param name=\"flashVars\" value=\"videoId=43057831001&amp;playerID=6555681001&amp;domain=embed&amp;\" \/><param name=\"base\" value=\"http:\/\/admin.brightcove.com\" \/><param name=\"seamlesstabbing\" value=\"false\" \/><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"swLiveConnect\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowScriptAccess\" value=\"always\" \/><embed src=\"http:\/\/c.brightcove.com\/services\/viewer\/federated_f9\/6555681001?isVid=1&amp;publisherID=769341148\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\" flashvars=\"videoId=43057831001&amp;playerID=6555681001&amp;domain=embed&amp;\" base=\"http:\/\/admin.brightcove.com\" name=\"flashObj\" width=\"486\" height=\"412\" seamlesstabbing=\"false\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" swliveconnect=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" pluginspage=\"http:\/\/www.macromedia.com\/shockwave\/download\/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash\"><\/object><\/p>\n<div>Amazingly, his audience seemed to laugh along with him, even cheer at times, though perhaps they&nbsp;simply didn&#8217;t know what to make of what he was telling them.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div>Personally, I always thought the guy was a bit of a lech and a creep, and I haven&#8217;t found his show funny since back in the days when he used to dress up in Velcro suits and fling himself at Velcro walls. There&#8217;s always been something derogatory in the way he leers at women, the way he speaks of his wife (and of avoiding marriage as long as he could), and I feel sorry for her being dragged through the mud along with these other women who will now surely also find themselves in the spotlight.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I&#8217;m not suggesting he ought to have paid the blackmail to keep his &#8216;creepy&#8217; misdeeds quiet&#8211;blackmail is no better than infidelity&#8211;but I am saying, I think the guy ought to have considered his public position, his wife&#8217;s feelings, and the staffers as well before his own desires. Why did he have to go public about this? I suppose news of the arrest would have hit the news at some point, and Letterman was hoping to get out ahead of it. Still, I hope this decision to defuse the blackmailer&#8217;s threats publicly was made in consultation with his family as well as the women with whom he had the affairs (it&#8217;s not clear when he slept with them, whether before or after he finally married his girlfriend of 2 decades, Regina Lasko, though I&#8217;m not sure that would ameliorate any moral ugliness here).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Will the network keep him on? Almost certainly&#8211;he&#8217;s suddenly kicking Leno&#8217;s ass. <b><i>Will you keep watching?<\/i><\/b> I won&#8217;t&#8230; but then, I found him unfunny before. Now I just find him unsavory as well.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Subscribe to receive updates from Everyday Ethics or&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/EverydayEthics\" style=\"text-decoration: underline; \">follow us on&nbsp;Twitter<\/a>!<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By now you&#8217;ve probably heard: David Letterman&#8217;s been the victim of a blackmail attempt to extort $ 2 million to keep quiet about sexual affairs he had with female staffers. Instead, Letterman chose to go on the air and, well, air his dirty laundry before the blackmailer could. 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