{"id":184,"date":"2009-09-22T12:26:54","date_gmt":"2009-09-22T12:26:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/09\/readers-help-us-define-ethics.html"},"modified":"2009-09-22T12:26:54","modified_gmt":"2009-09-22T12:26:54","slug":"readers-help-us-define-ethics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayethics\/2009\/09\/readers-help-us-define-ethics.html","title":{"rendered":"Readers: Help Us Define Ethics"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wiktionary.org\/wiki\/ethics\"><b>Ethics:<\/b><\/a><br \/>1.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;(philosophy) The study of principles relating to right and wrong conduct.<br \/>2.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Morality.<br \/>3.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;The standards that govern the conduct of a person, especially a member of a profession.<\/p>\n<p>Hillary and I were chatting today about ethics. &#8220;So what else is new?&#8221; you may ask. Isn&#8217;t that, um, your <i>job<\/i>? Well, not necessarily. We discuss whatever dilemma the world has chosen to present us with on that particular day &#8211; personally or via CNN.&nbsp; We discuss our individual responsibility in these matters, and we consider what both our hearts and minds are telling us.<\/p>\n<p>However, when I wrote my post last night on the Savages, a couple who decided to <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/09\/moral-monday-the-savages-decision-to-give-birth-to-the-wrong-baby.html\">carry a pregnancy to term even though the embryo wasn&#8217;t theirs<\/a>, it really struck me how subjective ethical behavior could be. The Savages&#8217; actions seemed completely ethical because their moral standard in this situation aligned with my own, and also because I felt that their actions were innately <i>kind<\/i>. <\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nBut kindness and feelings have very little to do with ethics. Ethical<br \/>\nbehavior means vastly different things to different people at different<br \/>\ntimes and in different cultures. Take, for example, one response to my<br \/>\nquestion, <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/09\/whose-life-would-you-save.html\">&#8220;Whose life would you save?&#8221;<\/a>&nbsp;<br \/>\nCharles Cosimano said, &#8220;I have an obligation to my wife and myself. I<br \/>\nhave absolutely no obligation to the strangers.&#8221;&nbsp; Based on Mr.<br \/>\nCosimano&#8217;s comment, one could hypothesize (though, please note, I don&#8217;t<br \/>\nwant to put words in his mouth) he&#8217;d find the Savages&#8217; actions<br \/>\ncompletely <i>unethical<\/i>, since they made a decision that affects, oh, about 9 months of their life for a child that is not theirs. <\/p>\n<p>So, back to our discussion today, we wanted to ask you, the reader, to <b>define ethics for us.<\/b>&nbsp; <b>What does it mean to you personally?<\/b>&nbsp;<br \/>\nIs it a life governed by your gut feelings of right and wrong? Is it a<br \/>\nlife based on logic and critical thinking? Does it change with every<br \/>\nsituation?&nbsp; Is it based on religious principles? Societal mores?<br \/>\nPhilosophical treatises?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ethics:1.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;(philosophy) The study of principles relating to right and wrong conduct.2.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;Morality.3.&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;The standards that govern the conduct of a person, especially a member of a profession. Hillary and I were chatting today about ethics. &#8220;So what else is new?&#8221; you may ask. Isn&#8217;t that, um, your job? Well, not necessarily. 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