{"id":126,"date":"2009-08-14T09:08:36","date_gmt":"2009-08-14T09:08:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/08\/failure-friday-i-jump-to-conclusions.html"},"modified":"2009-08-14T09:08:36","modified_gmt":"2009-08-14T09:08:36","slug":"failure-friday-i-jump-to-conclusions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayethics\/2009\/08\/failure-friday-i-jump-to-conclusions.html","title":{"rendered":"Failure Friday: I Jump To Conclusions"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ass. U. Me. <\/p>\n

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Mostly me.<\/p>\n
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This week I made a jerk of myself when, all impatient, I emailed a clothing company to which I had returned a couple pairs of jeans, wanting to know where my refund was.<\/div>\n
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Now, I had every right to inquire – the first couple times<\/i>. <\/div>\n
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I returned the items June 18th; by end of July, there’d still been no credit applied to my card, and the postal service could find no record of the company signing for my return package. I began to get nervous. The company was kind of sketchy – after all, how legit can a catalog be when everything in it, including formal wear, costs less than $40? But still, I perhaps held them in a bit too<\/i> skeptical regard. <\/div>\n
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I first emailed them after a month had passed with no refund and no acknowledgement of receipt of return. I got no reply (eek!), so I emailed them again; politely but insistently inquiring after my refund. This time I received a timely reply. There’d been a holdup, I was told, but my refund was being processed and I should have it no later than July 31.<\/div>\n
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OK (grumble, grumble). Fine.<\/div>\n
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July 31 rolls around and no rebate. Or so says my online credit card statement. To be sure, I wait another couple days, but nope, I don’t see a credit.  OMG<\/i>, I panic, these people are some fly-by-night scam agency, and they’re totally ripping me off!<\/i>  <\/div>\n
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Hyperventilating, I dash off another email to customer service, insisting, much louder this time, that I receive my rebate. Should I not receive it this very day<\/i>, I threaten, I will have to involve the Better Business Bureau!!!<\/div>\n
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Shrill, shrill.<\/div>\n
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Then, having shown these jokers what’s what, I go online to do some banking and, in the process, just happen to check my other<\/i> credit card account. And see that… oops<\/i>… the credit was indeed applied to my card on July 31st as promised. It just went to a different card than I expected.<\/div>\n
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Oh, am I a schmuck.  When they politely emailed me to inform me as much, I did have the grace to apologize profusely, but I don’t think it makes up for my paranoia and wild accusations.<\/div>\n
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